Early Christmas Present-s
By Marsha
@MarshaMusselman (38865)
Midland, Michigan
December 13, 2017 11:45am CST
Originally, I was going to talk about the picture, but I may add to that. Last week my sister called to tell me she'd be writing me a check from my mom's account.
Rather than pay extra for nurses to help my mom when needed those of us in the area try to spend extra time with her at the group home where she lives. Because of our helping out we usually get extra money this time of year. Often its been under two grand, but once in a while it's been more.
This helps us out since we make a lot less during the winter months. This year I was surprised to find that we were getting a lot more than that. Over ten grand. When my mom was still healthy in mind and body she gave all of us six kids ten grand which was the most that could be given without the recipient having to pay taxes on it. It's been probably twenty years since we've gotten that larger amount. Although, one year she gave us a used car.
We will be using most of the money to pay off debt.
My husband has needed a new coat for two years, so we agreed he should get a new one. He prefers Carhart, which are more expensive. He also wanted a TV. The one we've been using was a slim analog with a screen the size of most monitors. Our store had a sale plus Santa bucks. He saved one hundred dollars. I wasn't thrilled with the size, but I can watch it from the recliner in comfort so maybe I will enjoy it more than I thought.
For the first time in years we are getting the girls more than cheap movies. Not a lot more, though, as the goal is to get a better start paying off debt.
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@marguicha (230350)
• Chile
13 Dec 17
So glad that the money will be well spent. And I´m sure that, in a way, it is still a present from your mother.
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@MarshaMusselman (38865)
• Midland, Michigan
13 Dec 17
Yes, I definitely look at it that way. She always said she didn't want the kids to have to pay taxes on their whole wad if none was spent while she was alive.
The extra used to come from her investment gains, but I don't know whether that still produces a lot or not.
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@marguicha (230350)
• Chile
13 Dec 17
@MarshaMusselman She was a wise woman when she was younger.
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@MarshaMusselman (38865)
• Midland, Michigan
13 Dec 17
@marguicha She was a stay-at-home mom when she was younger. She didn't return to work until my youngest sister was seventeen. But, neither she nor my dad had any debt so they were able to invest more than most can, I'd guess. We didn't have a lot when we were growing up. My dad was self-employed and even though we had our needs met we weren't rolling in the dough. One year he only made three hundred dollars. Even back then that wasn't much.
My dad was self-employed until he began working for the city and my mom worked at Dow Corning when she returned to the work force at the age of fifty-one. She retired at seventy.
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@MarshaMusselman (38865)
• Midland, Michigan
13 Dec 17
Definitely. I also found out that I might have already paid my sister all the money borrowed from her over the years, which is an added blessing.
@MarshaMusselman (38865)
• Midland, Michigan
13 Dec 17
In July I begin getting my social security, but once I begin paying Medicare INS it won't be as much. This should help out a lot.
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