What do we like?

@tmosby (418)
United Kingdom
January 15, 2018 11:51pm CST
Do people like to be on their own or be like others? For instance, someone might want to be like famous actor DeCaprio, or someone want to be a great businessman - just say Bill Gates - or someone like him. So, to be like others is good or to be on our own is good?
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4 responses
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
16 Jan 18
A person is like a sponge. We sometimes adopt personalities of other people depending on how long we are with them, how much they have influenced us. In fact, sometimes, we become the books we read, or we start mirroring the persona of our favourite characters. But there's always that percentage in us that's totally us and I think we shouldn't be pressured into changing that to please others.
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@tmosby (418)
• United Kingdom
16 Jan 18
@Theresaaiza Yes, that's true but we sometimes forget our real self and end up trying to be others.
@Spontaneo (14703)
• United States
18 Jan 18
Theresaaiza, I agree with you!
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@tmosby (418)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 18
@Spontaneo Yes, and by the time they realize it, it will be too late they cannot come back to their real selves.
@JSAph8888 (949)
• Philippines
16 Jan 18
I'd like to be on my own. Because we are all unique. How about you?
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• Philippines
18 Jan 18
@tmosby Why? Are trying to be like others?
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@tmosby (418)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 18
@JSAph8888 I also would like to be on my own. Still I'm unable to stay on my own real self. But I'm trying hard to make a good comeback.
@tmosby (418)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 18
@JSAph8888 No, not really. But my self-esteem or so-called self-confident is low and I cannot be myself. And I even don't know what I try to be when I'm in the middle of the other people. I still am trying to identify my real self and be on that.
• Philippines
16 Jan 18
I'd rather be myself now rather than be those other people I'm not aware of.
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@tmosby (418)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 18
@Letranknight2015 That's good for you and it's what it has to be. I've seen many people who act to be someone else and forget what their actuality is.
@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
16 Jan 18
I just want to be me.
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@tmosby (418)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 18
@JohnRoberts That's the bravest statement from you. Be yourself and don't pretend to be someone else.
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@tmosby (418)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 18
@dodoazo haha, try doing it rather than saying.
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