Will You Change For Your Wife/ Girlfriend

India
February 5, 2018 6:11am CST
I just remember a clip from a movie in which the Guy wasn't any good and have many bad habits but in the end to get her girl back and he amend his ways and became a very successful person. My question is will you change for your better half? I Do Please share
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@sw8sincere (5554)
• Philippines
5 Feb 18
I think a person who is in love doesn't have to force his or her beloved to change. Loving is accepting the kind of person you wish to be with. No one is perfect by the way. You got to love his or her imperfections. =)
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• India
6 Feb 18
Why don't we try to be better
@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
5 Feb 18
I dont have a wife or gf and no I would not change
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• India
6 Feb 18
Nice to know
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
6 Feb 18
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@Plethos (13581)
• United States
5 Feb 18
If you have to change for a person to love you, then its going to fail. She wouldnt be acceptig you for who you are on the inside, she would only be in love with the facade you are pretending to be. You wont behappy wih yourself.
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@Plethos (13581)
• United States
6 Feb 18
@thesupersingh - how is it for the better if yourchanging just to be loved by one? Does that mean you are now risking being hated by those who love you now? Why cant the other love you for who you currently are? In order for two to love each other, you both need to be yourselves and build on that. Youcant force love.
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@Plethos (13581)
• United States
6 Feb 18
@thesupersingh - the expression, misery loves company , comes to mind with that scenario.
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• India
6 Feb 18
So do you mean we don't need to change for better
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@VivaLaDani13 (60825)
• Perth, Australia
16 Jun 18
@thesupersingh The only things I would change for someone are the things that would better me. But if I was asked to change my personality, hobbies, interests then they can shove a broom up their butts cause I ain't gonna do that.
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• Perth, Australia
18 Jun 18
• India
17 Jun 18
Haha of course my friend. You are right
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@JohnRoberts (109845)
• Los Angeles, California
5 Feb 18
I don't have any to begin with.
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• India
6 Feb 18
Thanks
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@tzwrites (4835)
• Romania
5 Feb 18
I change but only a bit. I don't think my partner wants me to change too much...he hasn't mentioned anything specific.
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• India
6 Feb 18
That's nice then
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@prashu228 (37518)
• India
5 Feb 18
It happens only in our movies, if a person is bad why to opt for them , we can go for a good person . There are many people in our society who are influenced by such movies , they think that people change after marriage but instead they end up suffering...so its better to choose person according to our taste
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• India
6 Feb 18
Thanks
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@cttolledo (5451)
• Legaspi, Philippines
5 Feb 18
Not change maybe but I can compromise. Like respecting each other's personal way of life, but both must do each obligation to each other and to the rest of the family.
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• India
6 Feb 18
That's true
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@deorahul (228)
5 Feb 18
Be yourself and if she accepts you,loves you the way you are then yes you have to change because you love her and wanted to make her feel special.
• India
6 Feb 18
Thanks
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