how to tell a girl you dont like her?
By thatsjvl
@jvincent_129 (4994)
Philippines
March 5, 2018 1:13pm CST
I meet someone and its been irritating me. At first I try to meet her for a date and try to go out and have fun but we dont have any in common. Right now , she still hoping for a second date so she keeps messaging me and calling me. Its wasting some of my time and how can I tell her nicely that she is not my type?
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@DesirousDreamer (34780)
• Peoria, Arizona
5 Mar 18
Just say you don't feel a connection and leave it at that. Don't just ignore her because that is the absolute worst. Just thank her for her time and be honest.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
5 Mar 18
Tell her that she is like a sister to you 
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
5 Mar 18
It's not fair to let her think she stands a chance with you so it would be best to tell her although you like her as a friend it can never be anything more. She won't be pleased but she'll get over it.
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@jvincent_129 (4994)
• Philippines
6 Mar 18
Just be honest I guess. If you sense that she is really missing you.
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@rheicel (7065)
• Philippines
14 Mar 18
That must be hard because I know you don't want to hurt her feelings I hope by ignoring her she gets the signal that you don't like her but if she didn't get it might as well, to tell the truth, so she wouldn't have to bother you anymore.
@jvincent_129 (4994)
• Philippines
15 Mar 18
She is still calling and chatting me on facebook. I guess maybe she just wants to be friends. Or I dont know I dont want her to give wrong signals.
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@rheicel (7065)
• Philippines
15 Mar 18
@jvincent_129 It's okay to be friends just be friends with her but don't ask her again to go out.
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@MashaVickina (2184)
• Russian Federation
5 Mar 18
A difficult case... Just talk to her as soon as possible. Do not hesitate and do not blame yourself. Do not hide, just let this talk happen soon. Explain that you have other aims in life and wish her good luck
Good luck to you too
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@jvincent_129 (4994)
• Philippines
6 Mar 18
Yeah. Thats one excuse you can tell and then it fades away.
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
5 Mar 18
Any respectable man's dilemma. Ha ha, Depends on your judgment. If you think she could take it upfront, say so. She won;t get depressed, Otherwise, ignore the messages, Do not respond She will get tired soon enough.
If the messages are irritating you, well it is part of the risk you had taken, You can live with it for the time being. Just think it will pass on quickly enough.
@jvincent_129 (4994)
• Philippines
6 Mar 18
Hopefully my judgment is correct. Hope i can read her. Hopefully she can also get the signals.
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@jvincent_129 (4994)
• Philippines
13 Mar 18
That may be a man's fault but you wish you had a chance with her. I like her but in the end it wasnt supposed to work out. So is it a man's fault that he tried to make it work?
@jvincent_129 (4994)
• Philippines
6 Mar 18
For you, if you really like a guy and then he tells you straight, would that be okay for you?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Mar 18
@jvincent_129
Of course, it's not. But at least he is being honest with me. I will take it. Because most people we can't please them.
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@SeKamal (28)
•
6 Mar 18
Be honest, don't take the ghosting route it's heartbreaking. Just tell her exactly what you told us haha say you're a great person but we don't have a lot in common sorry but I don't see this going anywhere. Good luck!! :)
