Lately, have you lifted the spirit of someone on mylot?
By Nnaemeka
@mydanods (6513)
Nigeria
March 12, 2018 12:47pm CST
Have you noticed that you get a kick when you encourage someone? That you feel happy when you have helped someone? I get that feeling all the time on mylot. There are lots of noobs coming here who want to be encouraged or shown how stuff works. There are lots of introverts and extroverts, depressed and not-so healthy individuals who would need a little encouragement. Some mylotters have fallen and broken their bones. Some are old and need encouragement. They might post incomprehensible things but we need to keep on giving them the positive vibes. There are some that have problems in their relationship and would appreciate us telling them what course of action to take.
Have you seen any of these situations here on mylot recently? Did you go out of your way to render help?
That is the reason for our being here on mylot. We rise by helping others.
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5 responses
@snowy22315 (209368)
• United States
12 Mar 18
I know sometimes I have,,,other times probably not so much!
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
12 Mar 18
Yes, I do come across the people who are very friendly with me today and all of a sudden they become hostile next day! I too did have the similar feelings like you! another thing which struck me was , if these peopel are getting easily influenced by others or what?
any way since we are here to exchange the facts and news about our ways of living, I am also keeping quite and trying to be as positive as I could be! Thanks @mydanods!
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
13 Mar 18
i think i have read some discussions about depression and health issues. i try to suggest some treatment but i don't force the user to adhere to these.
i like to read some discussions that challenge my mind, but if the post is too depressing to read, i can just shy away from it because i do not want to push myself in to that
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
13 Mar 18
This is a discussion forum where we offer ideas to people. I wouldn't like someone trying to persuade me to take his advice. Just give it and I will decide on my own, after all, I was the one who asked for it in the first place. Please, continue to give others all the help you can. You will gain so much in return for it.
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
15 Mar 18
@ridingbet What if someone doesn't know about a thing and starts talking as if he is an authority?
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
15 Mar 18
@mydanods some however think otherwise. if somebody gives his knowledge about something, the tendency for some is to ridicule and challenge further the knowledge of that person, and i would not like to feel that way.
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
12 Mar 18
I've tried to help others, but got in trouble. Other times, I encouraged someone and they instantly, became a grateful friend! Some things I say, offend others greatly. Another time, I say something and it's helpful. We never know how a person might respond to us
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
12 Mar 18
@kobesbuddy Continue. You will reap what you sow. That is the essence of what keeps people coming to mylot day in and day out.
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
12 Mar 18
@mydanods Yes, I would back off and then, just show them kindness. That's what I had to do, with some people here.
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@saritflor (3914)
• Hungary
12 Mar 18
Yes a few times already though I hope my words help.
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