Divorce

so people want her to stay with a man who cheats ? and that is going to help the family by being around a cheater, how? shes right in her decision. shes doing what she sees is best for the family, if he wants to be with other women, then he can.

They think divorce will destroy the whole family? I think husband already destroyed that by cheating. Of course, he won't be held accountable. People will only pressurize a woman. I hope they burn in hell

the husband cheated but says he's not ready to divorce her? is he remorseful? did he apologize? did he promise not to do it again?

divorce is the only option in this case, isn't it? no second chance?

she should divorce and start new life

Did the husband agree to the divorce? If happiness of your friend is at stake, then go for the divorce rather than drown in the sea of misery.

Your friend should divorce him. A marriage is a contract between two individuals, so quite frankly everyone else's opinions don't matter at all. Not one of those people who are telling her that she shouldn't divorce him are taking into consideration the fact that her husband is the one whose actions have brought about this very natural consequence. His cheating is what has led her to seek a divorce from him. On top of that, divorce doesn't destroy families. Oh, sure, the parents aren't together anymore... but that's often for the best in cases like this. She has a 10-year-old daughter, so what example does she want to set for her child? Does she want to show her that an adult woman is someone who caves to societal pressure and stays married to a faithless man who disrespects her so completely that he's sleeping around? Or does she want to show her daughter that it's okay to stand up to someone who's wronged you, even if that person is a spouse, and say enough is enough and I don't have to tolerate your inappropriate behavior? People care too much about presenting the image of a perfect family to the world. They don't care if it's actually true, or if the relationship is healthy. It's going to be tough for your friend, but I think she'll be happier in the end if she truly feels this is her hill to die on and reconciliation isn't possible. If people keep giving her grief about it, I'd suggest asking them point blank why they think it's okay for her husband to potentially give her a sexually transmitted disease. I imagine she'll probably get some shaming, too... people saying that he wouldn't have cheated if she'd only done x, y, or z to keep him happy. That's bull. He would have chosen to cheat regardless of anything she did.

She should make the decision that is best for her, children have the remarkable ability to adjust.

Do they have kids?

Hope children are not involved?

Well everybody else isn't the wife and don't understand what she is going through. It's her choice either she gives him another change or part ways with him. She should be the only the to decide. It's her life after all.

If there's no trust in the relationship and your friend is feeling suffocated, then what's the use of stretching such a relation. Better she should take the divorce.

If divorce makes her regain her self confidence again then why not? But if she has child/ children then it's really hard to decide, if she thinks divorce would be the best for her then think wisely so that she will never regrets any decision she makes.

She should go ahead and divorce her husband.If her husband cheated on her,it means that she doesn't truly love her.When you love,the love you have for your loved ones keeps you from making stupid mistakes.Cheating is a big thing and it doesn't just happens.It happens when the love that exist between two people is weak.Speaking of weak love,is there true love in this world that can overcome all obstacles?I have never seen it and I don't think it exists.