Kid`s Achievements in School
By Mrs.Pumpkins
@MrsPumpkins (466)
Philippines
March 30, 2018 8:30pm CST
I am a mother of three boys. They are 14, 8 and 7. I am happy with their school performance both in academic and extra curricular activities. One thing that bothered me was when my sister raised the issue that my 8 year old son did not get to the top five students in their class. She pointed out that I wasn't helping him doing his homework or wasn't assisting him while studying during exams. I told her that at this early age I don`t want him to force to studying. I want him to enjoy and explore school. I am satisfied with his report card that it has no failing marks. I am confuse ,though if my sister was right or not? I just couldn't believe that she raised that issue.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
31 Mar 18
You are the mother and whatever your sister says is her own opinion. I understand she is concerned but still you have the upper hand on the matter. If you deem right that your child should not be forced to study and you are helping out in his school work, then ni one should question that. They are your kids, and you know whats right for them. 
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
31 Mar 18
@MrsPumpkins thank you. Dont worry. I am sure you are doing a good job in raising your kids. Please say hi to your kids for me. Take care, my friend.
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@MrsPumpkins (466)
• Philippines
31 Mar 18
I agree with you. I was a bit offended when one questions on how i raised my kids. But I guess one`s opinion doesn't count especially when you are raising your kids to be good and honest human beings.Thank`s for your shared opinion.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
31 Mar 18
Congrats to your children. You should be proud for having sons like them. I am happy for you.
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
31 Mar 18
I am not a mother so my opinion may vary. But I would think all parents' want their child to do/be the best,however at the age of 8.. how can someone be determined as top 5 or not. I think grades matter more later in the years. :)
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@MrsPumpkins (466)
• Philippines
31 Mar 18
Yes, I agree with you. I also explained that to my sister because she said she was a bit concerned that both of my 14 and 7 year old boys are at the top 3 in their class. But I explained to her that I give them the same training and attention in terms of school stuffs. I just don't want them to feel the pressure at an early stage.
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
31 Mar 18
@MrsPumpkins
It is just her opinion, I would not be bothered by it too much. You know how you're raising your child and allowing them to also enjoy their childhood while also concentrating on school. Still young, once they hit middle school/high school, that will be another story. :)
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