Being a mistress.could it be love

@Berrygal (5834)
April 5, 2018 8:27pm CST
Sometimes I see a lot of girls dating an already married man and they claim love with the argument of the man being with the wrong person,not happy in his marriage, he was forced to marry the wrong person etc.Do you believe such is love or is mere lust?
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@mlgen1037 (29882)
• Manila, Philippines
6 Apr 18
This actually depends but mostly are just after the money. But there are still those that are long lost love.
@Berrygal (5834)
6 Apr 18
Yea, money play a great role but long lost love shouldn't go for an already married man.
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@mlgen1037 (29882)
• Manila, Philippines
6 Apr 18
@Berrygal yes, that would be on the moral side too. But let us not tackle that. hehehe
@Berrygal (5834)
6 Apr 18
@mlgen1037 alright dear friend
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6 Apr 18
Look its 30%love and 70% lust. Sometimes girls feel good by talking to a man and that goodness creates feelings inside them(Not knowing about the marital status of person). Here it is lust. Sometimes both girl and love talking to each other and they want to take the talking to courtship. Now its love. If you look in both the things both love and lusts are not saturated here and that's thing happens when a person is in relationship with a married one. Blaming each other is a blind psychology.
6 Apr 18
@Berrygal be a love spy. Enquiry the background data of that man if he doesn't like to give answers to your question or you think he is hiding something. Never be entrusted with man in love at first stance. Follow him first(be friends), collect his background data about life and then have your chance. You can't afford to ruin your life with a wrong man.
@Berrygal (5834)
6 Apr 18
I love your analogy but what's happen if the girl is not aware of the man's marital status
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@Berrygal (5834)
6 Apr 18
@prakashj256 you're right there
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@rheicel (7065)
• Philippines
6 Apr 18
I couldn't really tell and I don't want to judge because I'm not in their shoes but I hope they do it right if they're not happy anymore in their marriages then they should get a divorce and be with who they truly love.
@rheicel (7065)
• Philippines
6 Apr 18
@Berrygal Yes, why prolong the agony, end the misery right away don't make any excuses and do the right thing so in the end you'll get what you want and be happy. I know it's not that simple but step by step it could happen.
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@Berrygal (5834)
6 Apr 18
Well stated dear,just get a divorce and end the misery
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@Starmaiden (9308)
• Canada
6 Apr 18
I dont understand what a woman would see in a man who cheats on his wife. Does she think she can change him? My guess is NOT! There's no love in that affair. She will be disappointed.
@Berrygal (5834)
6 Apr 18
They think so dear friend