When you are hurting over a break up, what do you do?

United States
April 8, 2018 11:11am CST
Even if your relationship was not healthy, and the person did not really see your worth, it is hard. You can look at different things the person said that hurt you. You can look at the fact that he always thought you were a plain jane, and it does not make it any better especially when you were with that person for over two years. If you look at the fact that he could be insensitve and tell lies and think nothing of it, you should feel better. Yet, I don't.
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@Jessabuma (31696)
• Baguio, Philippines
8 Apr 18
You can hang out with friends that are close to you.. Make yourself busy, eat something sweet dear friend..
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• United States
8 Apr 18
I am busy...
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• United States
9 Apr 18
@Jessabuma But even when you keep yourself busy....your mind and tend to wander...into areas it shouldn't.
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@Jessabuma (31696)
• Baguio, Philippines
9 Apr 18
@MsBooklover ohh okay
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
8 Apr 18
It is tough, no matter how the relationship or person was. as you gave them a lot of yourself, and your time. Sorry you have to go through this, but I hope soon, it'll be all in the past.
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
9 Apr 18
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• United States
9 Apr 18
Thank you. I hope so, too.
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@Icydoll (36713)
• India
8 Apr 18
Try to divert your mind and keep yourself busy with various activities you like..
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• United States
8 Apr 18
I am trying to do that.
@mlgen1037 (29882)
• Manila, Philippines
8 Apr 18
I mourn for it until I got fed up. The moment I felt that, I was able to move on.
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• United States
8 Apr 18
I hope I get fed up soon.
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@mlgen1037 (29882)
• Manila, Philippines
9 Apr 18
@MsBooklover Yes, hopefully.
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@deba12 (2946)
• India
8 Apr 18
Try to think positively. Will it be good for you if you spend the rest of your life with a person who doesn't respect you at all? I will be happy if I was in your place. I would listen to mind boosting songs. You can arrange a breakup party.
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• United States
8 Apr 18
Now, that is an interesting concept...a break up party.
@Starmaiden (9308)
• Canada
8 Apr 18
Your love has been betrayed. That's what hurts. I always say "Dont FALL in love." When you fall into anything the landing can hit hard. Instead, "Rise" in love and you'll spend eternity in joy, peace and love.
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• United States
8 Apr 18
This is excellent advice, and I am going to take it.
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
9 Apr 18
If I were you, I will watch some comedy movies to kill time. Comedy movies make me happy and soon I will feel happy again.
@skysnap (20152)
8 Apr 18
Eat chocolate. Ice cream. Go out meet new people. Do exercise. And have better life around.
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• United States
8 Apr 18
I am trying for that.
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