Liars Liars

@gnatsmom (2575)
April 9, 2018 7:55pm CST
Got any liars or traitors in your family or circle of friends? I guess everyone has them. They can cut you to the core and break your heart. It is easy to sink into sadness or become angry. When that happens, though, they control you. I have been there. Sadly, most people are self-seeking and cruel. But there are those that come into are lives that bring the sunshine. They make your day better. Focus on those, and be forever grateful for them. Cherish them and give back to them. Feel the pain that comes from those that betray you, but not for too long. Let them go and embrace those who are loyal and loving.
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@Starmaiden (9308)
• Canada
10 Apr 18
I don't like to dwell on the negative things in my life. I prefer to keep a positive attitude even when others try to bring me down.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
10 Apr 18
Yes, I had a friend who always brought the sunshine in for me as we were growing up, but sadly she became one of those liars down the road. We parted ways as friends after over 50 yrs of friendship as sisters, but I can't have someone like that in my life. I miss the friendship we used to have but not the lying and deceit.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
23 Apr 18
@cintol Cindy, that is so sad. Why do you think she changed?
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@gnatsmom (2575)
23 Apr 18
I have been in similar situations. We can't control others choices. I wish I could figure out what makes people change and begin to live totally out of character. We can't make their decisions. All we can do is insure we make right choices and we protect our lives from other's toxicity.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
24 Apr 18
@cintol Cindy, I totally understand. It is very sad and glad you are away from her.
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@sprite1950 (30461)
• Corsham, England
10 Apr 18
Yes my son is the most terrible liar. I tell him he insults my intelligence by thinking I would even believe some of the rubbish he comes out with.
@sprite1950 (30461)
• Corsham, England
10 Apr 18
@gnatsmom I think lying becomes a way of life for them. They don't even care if people don't believe them.
@gnatsmom (2575)
10 Apr 18
I have a relative like that. I say all the time, "if you are gonna lie, at least tell something that is believable". His own friends have said, "that boy will tell a lie when the truth would do him better".
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@gnatsmom (2575)
10 Apr 18
@sprite1950 yes, I agree.
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@josie_ (10033)
• Philippines
12 Apr 18
Everyone lies. Some white lies are told because we don't want to hurt the feelings of others. I think this is reasonable. But not those deceit that are intended to take advantage or harm others.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
23 Apr 18
@gnatsmom I know people that lie and it is so so sad.
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@Berrygal (5834)
10 Apr 18
Yea,love yourself first and look out for those that love you
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@pureme (1528)
10 Apr 18
Liars are everywhere, they always want to appear flawless before everyone so people could trust them but the reverse is always the case
@gnatsmom (2575)
10 Apr 18
You are so right
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@dya80dya (36805)
10 Apr 18
Yes. I have liars in my family. The people we love hurt us the most.