I had a miscarriage
By UpbeatRae
@carebear29 (31962)
Wausau, Wisconsin
April 10, 2018 10:42pm CST
So I started bleeding at 3 today and been spotting since. So my sister in law took me to the emergency room after I talked to my Dr on the phone and found out after 3 hours of waiting I have been miscarrying after all. 9 weeks pregnant would have been tomorrow. I'm hurt but I'll make due. Thought I would tell everyone what happened today. Doesn't help I was stressed and im RH negative. 
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@LeaPea2417 (36594)
• Toccoa, Georgia
11 Apr 18
I am so sorry to read this. I totally can empathize because between my first and second son, I had an early miscarriage. It hurt my feelings a lot. I am praying for you.
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@carebear29 (31962)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
12 Apr 18
i had 5 total miscarriages and 3 live births
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@FourWalls (62755)
• United States
11 Apr 18
I’m so sorry to hear this. My prayers are with you.
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@Courtlynn (66918)
• United States
11 Apr 18
Sorry to hear.. I know they aren't easy to deal with.. especially mentally. So please make sure you try to rest and take care of yourself.
What is RH neg?
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@Daelii (5619)
• United States
11 Apr 18
Blood is either pos or neg, and certain issues can arise because different polarity in bloods see the other as an invader that needs corrected. Like our immune system to a cold...
In short, I'm so sorry! Having been there be sure to see Dr for follow up appointed. Its very important considering the rh factor.
I know no words of comfort help. Its awful going through it. Again, I'm so sorry!
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@Courtlynn (66918)
• United States
12 Apr 18
@carebear29 I knew people were either positive or negative, with A, B or O blood types, but never heard of positive or negative with RH, so got confused.. good to know, thanks. And sorry again.
I should probably find out what blood type I have..
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
11 Apr 18
Nikki, I am at loss for words for what happened. I have never been pregnant but I have friends who experienced it and I saw how devastated they were. Praying for you, dear friend.
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@carebear29 (31962)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
13 Apr 18
@mlgen1037 i am in y depression state thats for sure but ok otherwise
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
13 Apr 18
@carebear29 Youre most welcome, Nikki. How are you now?
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
11 Apr 18
Felt very sad to know about it! Please take care, as I understand one can gets disturbed mentally to face such situations! You are Rh -ve, you must have been given with Anti D injections! No? Some times there are some factors which are beyond our control! Be courageous and things will be alright for you once again! God bless!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
12 Apr 18
@carebear29 id despite taking all needed precautions some factors beyond our control can cause such mishaps! Inj. rhogam is very effective and is widely used all over the world with minimum side effects! God bless! Thanks!
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@carebear29 (31962)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
12 Apr 18
@AKRao24 i dont get side effects from it but yes. it will help for next pregnancy
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@shaggin (71678)
• United States
13 Apr 18
@carebear29 I know what it means but I was pretty sure when a family member had two miscarriages and it was found to be because of being RH negative that they gave her something for her to take so she would not miscarry the third time.
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@shaggin (71678)
• United States
13 Apr 18
Even better...
Which says "When is RhoGAM Administered?
RhoGAM only needs to be administered when Rh-negative blood may potentially be exposed to Rh-positive blood.
This most commonly occurs during pregnancy and blood transfusions. For Rh-negative women who are experiencing their first pregnancy, RhoGAM is usually not administered until their 28th week of pregnancy, and then again within 72 hours after delivery.
For every subsequent pregnancy after the first, RhoGAM will need to be administered at regular intervals, especially during the second half of the pregnancy.
It is also extremely important for Rh-negative women to receive this injection after any miscarriage or abortion in order to avoid future pregnancy complications."
Learn more about the medication RhoGAM, including why it is used, how it is used, when it is used, its side effects, and much more. This drug is a true medical breakthrough in the field of obstetrics and gynecology.
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@Blondie2222 (28611)
• United States
11 Apr 18
I'm so sorry for your loss, I know how devastating this can be. My sister had a miscarriage twice & was depressed from it for awhile and still has depression to this day. She does have one daughter now though so that helps her a bit. I hope you can get thru this & hopefully you can try again in the near future.
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@Blondie2222 (28611)
• United States
13 Apr 18
@carebear29 Ok well hang in there, if you ever need to talk just know were always here.
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@carebear29 (31962)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
12 Apr 18
yes thanks. we will still be trying
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@carebear29 (31962)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
12 Apr 18
@1hopefulman i am doing ok yes
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
11 Apr 18
I am sorry to hear this... Take care of yourself.
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@just4him (308692)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Apr 18
@carebear29 You're welcome. I lost three children, so I know your heartache.
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@FayeHazel (40246)
• United States
11 Apr 18
Oh I'm so sorry. That must be really difficult
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