Would you befriend your bully?
April 23, 2018 1:56pm CST
I am friends with a woman who was bullied in school by one girl. This girl trolled her on the school grounds, after school, and sometimes in class. This girl would also trap my friend and put a beating on her. Today these two women are the best of friends. They have been best friends since highschool graduation back in the 80's. They do everything together, even helped each other raise their kids. I think it is amazing when someone who was treated so badly by another can have so much forgiveness, and the other so much courage to change her ways. These two women are inseparable and I love them both dearly. Would you befriend your bully?
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25 Apr 18
@Starmaiden No, will not do any good and anyways I want to stay here. The one that showed him the apartment is very noisy too. One day he was up there making so much noise. Nothing can be done. I do not like calling the police because they interrogate me so that is out. I try to ignore him or yell up the ceiling. I know that encourages him to do more. I had a couple before him and I believe they taught him what to do. He does what they did.
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23 Apr 18
Its good that they overcame their problems and the bully toned it down. Sometimes the person who bullies just needs to be understood and they have no outlet for their actions so they bully. My grand daughter had a girl like that in school, 2nd gr, that was much bigger and would push her down, call names, etc. My daughter found the girl was from a broken home, mom always traveled and dad was too busy with his new family. The two of them are now good friends as well.