Should love be forced??

Nigeria
May 17, 2018 11:01am CST
In as much as we want people to love us, we can't force ourselves on them. But, it baffles me in reality, when some people keep forcing themselves on others just to have a relationship with them. For instance, some guy/girls cant eat nor sleep because someone says they cant have a relationship with them. The irony of the matter is that, why we force ourselves on others, they ignore us and try to love those that are ignoring them as well. Hmm, what a world! Never beg for people's love, the love you beg for today you will either loose it tomorrow or you will keep begging for it. You are unique, someone who will love you for who you are will soon find you. Never underestimate yourself. So, you see, in my opinion, Love shouldnt be forced what do you think?
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6 responses
26 May 18
Yesss..... If its forcing, that mean not love. Its a obsession!!!!
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• United States
17 May 18
I believe you think deeply. To much thinking and you could lose everything you've wanted in life. Take things as they come and relish in the fact someone loves you for who YOU are.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
17 May 18
When we force love we are neither loving nor loved. Love and force do not go together.
• Nigeria
17 May 18
@1hopefulman Very true.. They are like kerosene and water, they can mix together.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
17 May 18
Not sure what you mean in force there.
• Nigeria
17 May 18
Loving someone who has made it clear to you that they can't love you, that they are in love with someone else.,yet you keep pestering them for a relationship.
@MALUSE (69390)
• Germany
17 May 18
Sounds reasonable.
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@kaphokz (202)
18 May 18
That is a very good opinion, Many people always begging some love and attention in people that hate them.
• Nigeria
18 May 18
and they end up heart broken