Ending toxic friendship

@id_peace (14005)
Singapore
May 21, 2018 11:49pm CST
Today I had ended my toxic friendship with a group of friends. We had knew each other through the trading classes that we had attended. Throughout there are a lot of discordial as they will prefer to deviate from what had been taught first while I prefer to stick to it and modify accordingly. There was a leader in the group which had been in conflicting with my view. So they went into another group without me. I knew it much later that they abandoned me. Despite of that, I still on the last ditch of effort to make consolidation with them. They mocked me and said that I am wasting all my efforts. I had enough so I left them to be. Not that they are the only group of people I go with. The others are more positive and willing to share. Not only that they don’t mock or judge what you do. Happy to get rid of toxic friendship. What about you ever been in toxic friendship that you always wanted to get rid of?
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19 responses
@josie_ (9763)
• Philippines
22 May 18
You made a wise decision to get out early from that group. It would be better to find a group that share similar ideas like yours if you want to progress in your trading class.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
22 May 18
Yes I actually have a couple of groups running but I thought that it will still be good to talk to them somehow they don’t appreciate it. I had already make the first move and if the ball is no longer on my court, I am not going to do anything to make to make the ball come back to me
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@jstory07 (135116)
• Roseburg, Oregon
22 May 18
It is good to get rid of toxic friendships. Better to be around positive people that say good things about you.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
22 May 18
That is so true. It doesn’t have to be positive things about me. Just be positive will be a good start like mylot
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
22 May 18
none so far, actually I rekindled to HS girl friends now. We make a group in FB. I miss the old times.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
22 May 18
That is a great thing
@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
22 May 18
It is a little too bad
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
22 May 18
@id_peace yes, and now they are all in the Philippines and planning to have a get together, of course I will not be there. too bad tsk!
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
22 May 18
Good for you! You were very wise. I've gotten rid of toxic people and found I'm better off and much happier without them. They needed me more than I needed them.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
22 May 18
You are so right. I wished that I have your wisdom earlier
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
22 May 18
@DianneN Totally and thank you
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
22 May 18
@id_peace I wished I had it earlier myself. But better late, than never. I won't let poisonous people into my life anymore. Best of luck to you and stick to your ideals!!!
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
22 May 18
Oh yes! Those people from my former office. Am glad I separated myself from them.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
22 May 18
Do you feel good?
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
22 May 18
@id_peace Very much. I was able to breathe deeper.
@mnglsp (3614)
• Philippines
22 May 18
I experienced this before so I ended it up already. I am not hanging with her already cause I've always been in trouble back then because of her.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
22 May 18
What had you all done that get you into trouble?
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@mnglsp (3614)
• Philippines
22 May 18
@id_peace Lying to my parents. Taking her side and not obeying my parents. Doing whatever she wanted even though it's not right. Something like that.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
22 May 18
That is kind of manipulation of some sort. What eventually make you get out of a friendship with her?
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@popciclecold (35636)
• United States
26 May 18
This year in January, I knew a lady all she was about was using people, she wanted my job and did much evil too me.
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• United States
26 May 18
@id_peace No, I totally. let her go.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
26 May 18
That is evil don’t let her get it
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@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
27 May 18
yes, and I decided to withdraw.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
27 May 18
That is really good
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
22 May 18
I disconnected myself from all my siblings because of that bad energy ..
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
22 May 18
Wow I hope that it is good now since the negative energy is no longer around
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
24 May 18
@id_peace oh yes! really good ..
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@Ants79 (20)
• Bellville, South Africa
24 May 18
Not a easy decision for you I am sure.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
22 May 18
i have a colleague whom i am only civil now because she is the patronizing and condescending type of person, and i don't regret at all why i severed my friendship with her
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
22 May 18
I think it is a relieve feeling to get her out of your way right?
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
22 May 18
It is tiring isn't it?
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
22 May 18
@id_peace yes, it truly is. but we are civil with each other.
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@Shiva49 (26245)
• Singapore
22 May 18
I recall one instance where I tried my best to be friends with another. But, over time, he took advantage of me prying into personal matters to an extent I had to look over my shoulders! When he really went overboard, I told him to leave me alone. The issue is they turn the tables and make us the villains! siva
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
22 May 18
This is the worst kind of friends to be around
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@anikoonline (3250)
• Hungary
22 May 18
I had some toxic friendship. It was not easy to end these relationships, but I feel much better without these people.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
22 May 18
Yes exactly what I meant it does not feel good to end it but when you end t you feel relieve
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@Ants79 (20)
• Bellville, South Africa
24 May 18
I have been blessed with good friends, then again I am very picky with whom I spend time with. Glad you valued yourself.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
26 May 18
Yes always be in peace with oneself
@TreinY (92)
• Philippines
23 May 18
If people are really dragging you into something that makes you uncomfortable for a lot of reasons and it makes you feel bad every time, I believe you have to do something about it.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
23 May 18
Yes enough of that. You are so right about it
@allknowing (130292)
• India
23 May 18
Why have friends if they make you unhappy. That was a wise decision.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
23 May 18
This is completely so true
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@Paradon (2063)
• Pattaya, Thailand
22 May 18
It is sad when a group of friends go sour but when it does happen it is best to leave. I find it best for myself to avoid getting into groups. When I have I would generally just avoid them as it is not my style. LOL Guess I am a sociable hermit!
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
22 May 18
I know what you meant. I also did not purposely get into groups but it just so happen that it happen. I should be more isolated which is good for my cultivation
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@Berrygal (5834)
22 May 18
had one but I'm out of it now
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
22 May 18
The feeling was great?
@Herlyn123 (374)
23 May 18
I'm glad you finally decided on leaving toxic people behind. Hope you have a great day ahead!
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
23 May 18
You have a good day ahead too and hope that there are no toxic people around you.
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• Kochi, India
22 May 18
You are happy because you made a good decision.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
22 May 18
Yes I do feel relieve that I no longer need to please them