Hateful and lashing out

@Lolaze (5092)
St. Louis, Missouri
May 25, 2018 10:54pm CST
The other day I wrote about how I told my best friend I was done due to her wanting everything 100% for her and not having a 50/50 friendship. I’d left the opening in what I told her that if she got it together in the future to get with me and we’d talk. Well she has made sure that has now been revoked. All day today, she’s been posting nasty stuff on Facebook about me. Other than writing here - only two people knew about the situation from me and they were people who wouldn’t gossip about it. My fiancé was one and a friend/coworker was the other. That friend ethically couldn’t talk about it to anyone we know due to the confidentiality rules we have to keep (to protect my now former friend, not me). My fiancé works out of town and has no reason to talk with anyone but me. The former friend has decided to rant all over the internet though, call me all sorts of nasty names, and just stoop to new lows. One of those new lows? Bringing an innocent child into this and attacking her! The child is the 14 year old daughter of the friend/coworker, and the former best friend has never liked the child - though the child never did anything to her. Being friends with me kept her from ever lashing out but now she is terrorizing the kid on social media with slurs against her sexuality amongst other things. If she keeps it up, she will be lucky if all that happens is the police at her door for her harassing a minor. More likely the kid’s pissed off mom will be at her door.
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@mlgen1037 (29882)
• Manila, Philippines
26 May 18
That is just rude and mean. So immature of her that she cannot contain everything by herself. That is bullying too.
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@Lolaze (5092)
• St. Louis, Missouri
27 May 18
Yep. True colors come out when you stand up to people.
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@mlgen1037 (29882)
• Manila, Philippines
28 May 18
@Lolaze Those people are trying so hard to put other people down. I hope she stops dragging other people too.
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@Starmaiden (9308)
• Canada
26 May 18
Boy, some people just can't take rejection. This person's true character is casting a very dark shadow. Did you delete her from facebook?
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@Lolaze (5092)
• St. Louis, Missouri
26 May 18
Oh no I’m not deleting her. 1- Keep enemies close. 2-I want a front row seat when karma hits. I did get her Instagram account banned though because that is what she was using to harass the 14 year old and they didn’t take kindly to the homophobic slurs she aimed at the kid.
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• Canada
26 May 18
@Lolaze That's good news. Hopefully she'll come to her senses.
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
26 May 18
People like this are like poisonous snakes. I try to stay away from these people.
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@id_peace (17036)
• Singapore
26 May 18
Ignore the poisonous friend. Toxic relationship kills.
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@Lolaze (5092)
• St. Louis, Missouri
27 May 18
Yeah. She can say whatever, it’s not effecting me.
@jstory07 (148777)
• Roseburg, Oregon
26 May 18
You should unfriend her so their are no more bad commands on facebook about you.
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@Lolaze (5092)
• St. Louis, Missouri
27 May 18
I’m keeping an eye on her page because she’s now posting a lot of vague threats. She’s not naming me but I know I’m the one they are aimed at. Quite a few about plans to stab someone. I think I’m a day or so I will be making a stop by the police station in her part of town and requesting and officer go have a little chat with her.
@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
26 May 18
The best thing you can do is unfriend her. You don't need that on your FB page.
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@Lolaze (5092)
• St. Louis, Missouri
27 May 18
I have unfollowed her so that I have to make the choice to go and look at her page, nothing pops up automatically. For now, I’m keeping an eye on her since she’s making a lot of posts about plans to stab “someone”.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 May 18
@Lolaze That's too bad she's doing that. I'm glad you unfollowed her.
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