Ring Ring

@DianneN (243816)
United States
May 29, 2018 2:12pm CST
Not that I'm complaining, but my husband goes out every single day. He goes to the gym, out for breakfast with his friends, an occasional lunch with his buddies, and visits his former staff at his university where he worked for most of his career. He also helps me by doing errands. He also helps his friends with projects at their houses. As I said, I'm not complaining. He's full of energy and enjoys helping and doing. However, he calls me from wherever he is. Multiple times per morning. He calls to see how I am, what I'm doing, where I am, and if I need anything while he's out. He also calls just to say hi. I'm NOT complaining, but if you want to know where I am, I'm either out walking Doodles or on the phone with my husband.
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@JohnRoberts (112109)
• Los Angeles, California
29 May 18
Is he the possessive type?
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@andriaperry (114669)
• Anniston, Alabama
29 May 18
That is what I get too.
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
29 May 18
Not at all, just concerned and loving. I'm blessed.
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@Tampa_girl7 (47788)
• United States
29 May 18
If you don't mind the calls, then I think it's sweet of him.
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
29 May 18
I worry if I don't hear from him.
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@Tampa_girl7 (47788)
• United States
30 May 18
@DianneN I like to keep in touch with my husband too
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@AKRao24 (27588)
• India
29 May 18
I tell you that you are lucky to have such a caring and concern husband....of course I can see that you too have lot of concern for him ...as you have repeated that you you are not complaining about him! These are very petty things we need to give importance to draw the best out of the life! Very nice! Good luck!
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
29 May 18
Yes, I'm not complaining. He is very sweet and considerate.
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@AKRao24 (27588)
• India
29 May 18
@DianneN , yes I am happy to know! God bless you all!
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@Plethos (13432)
• United States
29 May 18
has he considered just installing a gps chip on you? it would be easier on him to know your location 24/7/365
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
29 May 18
He has always known my location since the day we met.
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@Plethos (13432)
• United States
29 May 18
@DianneN - so youre not a couple, youre an "entity" . just one ! truly awesome, keep it going you rambunctious college kids !
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@andriaperry (114669)
• Anniston, Alabama
29 May 18
You may find it loving but that would get on my nerves, It would make me feel like I am not trusted and have to answer a phone all the time, and explain where I am and what I am doing. You should do that to him, I bet he would not be so happy. I am not trying to sound mean but that is just how I feel.
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
29 May 18
Aww, but he's doing it since we've met. I call him, too. We're a team. He even misses me at home and comes to visit me for hugs and kisses when I'm in another room. It doesn't get on my nerves at all. Other people do. I'm very blessed to have such love.
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@jstory07 (120418)
• Roseburg, Oregon
30 May 18
@DianneN I can understand because my husband said he missed me when he was at work or I was at work.
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
30 May 18
@UncleJoe Thanks, @UncleJoe. I'm certain you feel the same about Becky. She and I are very, very lucky women to have such wonderful husbands.
@HazySue (39890)
• Gouverneur, New York
29 May 18
He sounds like a keeper. He is just checking to make sure you are ok. I do understand the fee3ling, my husband does the same thing.
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
29 May 18
Exactly! I'm so happy to hear you have a loving husband, too!
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@HazySue (39890)
• Gouverneur, New York
30 May 18
@DianneN It makes life so wonderful doesn't it?
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
30 May 18
@HazySue That it does! Others aren't as fortunate, Sue.
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• United States
29 May 18
If only I had a man like that. I don't even have a man, at the moment. I am not sure if you were here years ago, when my ex husband was on this site as well. Just.. disastorous.
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
29 May 18
I think we all deserve a kind, caring, and considerate husband like that. You are better off without your ex.
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• United States
29 May 18
@DianneN Oh yes definitely, but it hasn't been very easy bouncing back. I've had a few dates, and one other relationship, but otherwise I've been single. I know it's beter to be single than to be in a bad relationship though.
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
30 May 18
@ScribbledAdNauseum That's so true. Good things happen when you least expect them to.
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• United States
29 May 18
Awww that is so sweet of him to call you. A little much at times, but thats ok! He's thoughtful & kind.
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
29 May 18
2-3 times isn't bad. I'd rather he call me than someone else!
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• United States
30 May 18
@DianneN Hehh its cute he keeps tabs but maybe a text msg would do =P But its the old fashion way to call ~ I like that.
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
30 May 18
@infatuatedbby I'd rather hear his voice. He always makes me laugh. Besides, it would take him all day to type a text.
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@FayeHazel (39132)
• United States
29 May 18
Hubby sounds like a truly kind, generous sort. Does he know how to text? Maybe that would be easier for you both?
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
29 May 18
Yes, but don't laugh, he likes to hear my voice - so he says.
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@FayeHazel (39132)
• United States
29 May 18
@DianneN Aw that is cute.
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@amadeo (113854)
• United States
29 May 18
I have to think about this.Will check later
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
30 May 18
Still thinking?
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@amadeo (113854)
• United States
30 May 18
@DianneN yes I am Dianne not sure why.Senior moment who knows
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@august18 (3928)
• Tunisia
29 May 18
My twin sister and I do that quite often. It's really fun !
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
29 May 18
It is fun and never gets old. I'm sure you love each other very much, too.
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@Starmaiden (8799)
• Canada
29 May 18
Husbands like that are few and far between. As long as he is not the possessive type, enjoy the love coming your way. Maybe tell him to call once a day when he's out and not multiple times as you also have things to do.
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
30 May 18
His calls are 2 -3 depending how long he's out, I prefer that he calls as often as he wants. Whatever I have to do is meaningless. LOL! He's not the possessive type, just a nice man who calls his wife rather than someone else.
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• Canada
30 May 18
@DianneN You have a stable marriage and those are to be admired.
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
30 May 18
@Starmaiden Thanks so much. We've been married for many, many years.
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@DeborahDiane (38083)
• Laguna Woods, California
29 May 18
@DianneN - Ha ha! That would drive me crazy! Actually, our roles are reversed from yours. I'm usually the one out going to exercise, lunch, running errands, etc., and my husband tends to stay home. Often, he runs the laundry, does the dishes and makes dinner. The role reversal is nice after all these years! I feel spoiled. We don't call each other a lot during the day, however, unless it is important. We relax in the evenings and enjoy spending them together.
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
30 May 18
Why on earth would 2-3 calls a day drive you crazy? I exercise, lunch, do errands, etc., too. When my husband is home , if we aren't out and about together, he makes dinner and does the dishes. We relax together and enjoy spending time together, too, every afternoon and evening whether at home or out for the evening.
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• Laguna Woods, California
1 Jun 18
@DianneN - I guess it is just a difference in lifestyle. I'm often in exercise classes or in restaurants, so texting is just a more thoughtful way for him to contact me when he needs me. I never mind the text messages. In an emergency, of course, I would want him to call.
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
11 Jun 18
@DeborahDiane My husband never bothers me when I'm not at home unless there is an emergency, and I'm out every day walking, shopping, or out with friends. Thankfully, we haven't had any emergencies. If so, he would definitely call.
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@cintol (11453)
• United States
29 May 18
Doesn't he ever ask you to go along with him, it would be easier then him having to call all the time.
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
29 May 18
I walk with my friends in the morning and now belong to a gym. I also do my laundry and cleaning while he's out in the morning, but we do spend our late afternoons and evenings together. He has been calling me since the day we met. Lol!
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@cintol (11453)
• United States
29 May 18
@DianneN Thats sweet that the two of you still have those feelings for each other.
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
29 May 18
@cintol We've had a good thing going for many, many years. We're a team. Thank you!
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@nela13 (50580)
• Portugal
29 May 18
That is sweet, my husband also calls me several times during the day.
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
30 May 18
I'm so glad to hear you have a loving, caring, and kind hubby just like mine. It's rare in this day and age. We are sooooo lucky!
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@nela13 (50580)
• Portugal
30 May 18
@DianneN yes, we are
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
30 May 18
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• Eugene, Oregon
30 May 18
He is a busy guy and likes to stay in touch.
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
30 May 18
Simply put!
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@hostessman (11899)
• Tucson, Arizona
29 May 18
all you have to do is teach Doodles how to answer the phone,,,,problem solved
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
30 May 18
But I want to talk to my hubs! No fair.
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• United States
29 May 18
Sounds like a very interesting life LOL. Well i see that your husband really cares about you and wants you to know that and he really is making sure that you are ok and its great that he is caring and loving for you very much. My boyfriend was like that this morning and saying to me that i was mad about something and he knew i was and felt bad because i was mad and upset with the weekend plans that didnt happen and tonight i hope it a better night for us. I checked up on him at lunch to see how he was doing since hes working outside and its hot so i wanted to make sure he is ok. I think caring in a realtionship is important and to see how each other is doing.
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
29 May 18
Thank you for sharing that with me. Being caring, thoughtful, and kind are signs that someone loves us. Aren't we the lucky ones???? I call him if I don't hear from him. I worry. too.
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@allknowing (102915)
• India
2 Jun 18
Let me spoil your day Could it be he is checking on you?
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
4 Jun 18
#1. You can never spoil my day. #2. He isn't checking on me when I'm at home, and he has nothing to worry about. I never use the raspberry sign, because it's not considered nice, but here goes -
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@allknowing (102915)
• India
4 Jun 18
@DianneN If the sign you are talking about was not considered nice then why is it there. We need to express our mischief, Don't you think?
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
4 Jun 18
@allknowing Not in that way. Perhaps I'm not used to it here. I don't think it should be here, but that's my opinion. No one would give anyone the raspberry here. Is it something that's done in your country?
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@arunima25 (74169)
• Bangalore, India
30 May 18
Good to know that you have a caring husband who takes out time from his busy schedule to call you
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
30 May 18
I look forward to his calls every day. Thank you!
@arunima25 (74169)
• Bangalore, India
30 May 18
@DianneN Even I look forward to my husband's calls when he is away for tours.
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@DianneN (243816)
• United States
30 May 18
@arunima25 It's always nice to hear their voices, especially when they are away for a while. My husband used to have to go on conventions, but he called every night to ask me about my day and tell me about his.