Our Jobs Need To Match Our Abilities!
@danishcanadian (28954)
Canada
June 5, 2018 12:29pm CST
Now I think I've heard everything!!! I recently mentioned that my iPhone has been giving me trouble, so I upgraded to a new one. I ordered on line, and it was scheduled for delivery today via Canada Post. Because we live in an apartment, all notifications come through our house phone, and not a doorbell. Our phone also has a feature that rings once for a local call, and twice for long distance, but I digress.
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The phone rang a single ring, but only once. My husband picked up, and heard a dial tone. He checked the call display, and saw that it had come from the switchboard downstairs. Not wanting to miss our package, he took the elevator 11 floors down, and met the guy in the lobby. He and the guy got talking, and the guy informed my husband that hwas going blind, and could not read the numbers on the address labels. I think the guy expected a sympathetic pat on the head or something, but he told his sad sale of woe to the WRONG MAN! Hubby is ex-military, and believes that if you can't do the job right, you shouldn't be doing it at all. Hubby and I are BOTH legally blind, and we know what we can and can't do. I've been this way all my life, and hubby is going blind, so we understand both sides. We know how it is to be this way from birth, and how it feels to be going blind.
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I am teaching my husband how to live with changing vision, and he understands that I don't have a lot of visual memory, because I could never see that well to begin with.
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I know what it's like to have poor vision, but I also know better than to push it too far, and do a job that I can't do well. My husband had to RETIRE because of his failing vision, because he knew he could not continue the job. Even volunteering doing data entry for a local political organization is something he can only do for a few hours, before his eyes start to go. So why then, should we tolerate someone mis-delivering mail because of their vision? We have not gotten important notices because he puts them in the wrong box.
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I'm all for people with "disabilities" (I really hate using that word!) having as many job opportunities as the rest, but those opportunities need to be matched to the abilities they DO have!
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@BarBaraPrz (51823)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
7 Jun 18
Or new ones, if he already wears them.
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@Plethos (13718)
• United States
7 Jun 18
@BarBaraPrz - so true. i thought it was a yearly thing that carriers had to do, eye checks, since the job depends so much on reading the addresses.
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@sh2ker (503)
• Bury, England
5 Jun 18
I completely agree with you.It is one thing to make allowances and giving disabled people opportunities. Though it is necessary to take into account their limitations and find something they can do well.My question is how did he get to you.If he was driving how does he do it if his eyes are that bad.
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@danishcanadian (28954)
• Canada
6 Jun 18
I had the exact same question about him driving. I'm thinking he must've been far-sighted, or had lenses for far sight, but if that's the case, why not something for near sight? Like I said, I've almost had stuff lost because I didn't get my postal notices. Of course if he'd just deliver the packages and skip the notices, there'd be no problem.
@sh2ker (503)
• Bury, England
6 Jun 18
@danishcanadian Well I hope the situation improves and your mail stops going missing.
@BarBaraPrz (51823)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
7 Jun 18
Well, at least your mail gets delivered to your building. A lot of places had their door-to-door delivery replaced by superboxes down the street.
@danishcanadian (28954)
• Canada
6 Jun 18
Thank you. Not everyone can do everything Addresses have to be exact. I live in a high rose with 90 apartments spread over 11 floors, and they're numbered by floor, and then number, with 101 at the top of the grid (so I, on the 11th floor have mail in the bottom row). Except for the driving, I could do the near-sighted stuff better than he could. LOL




