How to comfort someone?

Philippines
June 11, 2018 10:15pm CST
My girlfriend lost her dog recently and she cried rivers because of that. After some weeks, she's moved on and is happier than ever carrying the memory and the connection she had with her dog. Last night, she had a terrible dream about her dog and she saw it dying once again in her arms and what's worse is that she feels that it's her fault. She recently called me early in the morning crying about it and telling me the details of her awful dream but I just cannot know how I can comfort her... I told her that I'm with her and just listened to her. I comforted her that it's just a dream and it's not real, but still, I don't feel like I have comforted her enough. Eventually, I just told her to sleep more, and feel everything she feels, and that I love her so much. I am sure that many of you here have lost a beloved pet and I am seeking wisdom on how to comfort a loved one that lost one. Thank you for your responses.
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
12 Jun 18
Just give the person some time to mourn and always stay by her side.
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• Philippines
12 Jun 18
Thank you, I'll do just that.
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@Ladanger (14582)
• United States
25 Jun 18
Only time can heal to be honest
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• Philippines
25 Jun 18
You're right. Time heals everything, and the only thing you can in cases like that is to ensure them you'll be with them all the way.
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• Philippines
25 Jun 18
@Ladanger Thank you! Have a lovely day there.
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@Ladanger (14582)
• United States
25 Jun 18
@GopherDanny definitely! Let them know they can count on you. Good luck with that (:
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
12 Jun 18
just be there for the person. listen, comfort, and hugs
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• Philippines
12 Jun 18
Thank you. And don't forget kisses. ;)
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
12 Jun 18
Just always there to listen to him /her and lend your shoulder
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