GIRLfriend
By ingrid
@ridingbet (66854)
Philippines
June 20, 2018 1:15am CST
Good noon on a Wednesday my fellow users of this site, how are you all?
This lunch time, we had a visitor. It is the girl friend of my son, the one he also met yesterday at a coffee shop in a supermall in the city. The girl, R, called my son that she will have lunch here at home because their place has no electricity. It is their area’s schedule to have the power interruption.
This lady is the girl that I (and my son ) drove home and later on came back to sleep in our house, and I made a discussion about this. She is a sweet lady and she also mentioned that she gave a letter of application in the school where I am employed as a part-time clinical instructor. No, she did not include me as a reference person.
R opened up some of her concerns regarding her former job in a state university. I and my sister were all ears to listen to her, and we also gave some pieces of advice and suggestions.
A few minutes ago, she and my son left to the city. It is not a date, but the lady just wants to stay out of her boarding house and have tea with my son in the coffee shop in the mall.
7 people like this
7 responses
@mlgen1037 (29882)
• Manila, Philippines
20 Jun 18
Good evening po. I like to go out with my boy friends before when I was married. Now, It is my ex-bf (who is now my husband) who I go out with. Hehehe
2 people like this
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
20 Jun 18
why hija? you are in another country? it is still afternoon here and you are already evening there?
my son is single and hope he is ready to mingle now.
my son is single and hope he is ready to mingle now.3 people like this
@rakski (156506)
• Philippines
20 Jun 18
@ridingbet @mlgen1037 is probably using the timeclock of others here. She forgot that we are int he same country
2 people like this
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
20 Jun 18
@rakski that is true. now, it is evening. i bet if her time now is early morning? just kidding, hija @mlgen1037
2 people like this
@rakski (156506)
• Philippines
20 Jun 18
@ridingbet something I cannot relate to also.
But is the lady whom she gave the Seiko watch one of his 4 best gril friends?
But is the lady whom she gave the Seiko watch one of his 4 best gril friends?1 person likes this
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
20 Jun 18
no, my son has 4 best girl friends. these ladies call my son 'bruh'. theirs is a 'low-maintenance-friendship' kind of relationship.
but he secretly told me he bought a Seiko wrist watch and gave to a lady last Saturday. his eyes glow when he tells me (again and again) that the lady has pictures on Instagram wearing the watch.
1 person likes this
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
20 Jun 18
@rakski my son has 3 male friends in high school; 1 a son of my cardiologist; 1 a son of another doctor here; the last one is the son of a friend of mine.
my son is my only, so he does not have a sibling to relate to.
1 person likes this
@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
20 Jun 18
@ridingbet , that means a girl friend does hve same role in a man's life like a wife without getting married?
1 person likes this
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
20 Jun 18
@AKRao24 a girl friend is a friend who is a girl.please take note that the girl is separated from the friend. but a girlfriend as like being in a relation with a girl; hence, girlfriend. when they both love each other and resort to be engaged, then they may call each other as fiance and fiancee.
1 person likes this
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
20 Jun 18
That is why I separated the words girl and friend because R is a friend of my son who is a girl.
If girlfriend, I believe this means she is committed to my son as his loved one.
Fiancé is engaged to be married. Wife is the pair received the sacrament of matrimony.
1 person likes this
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
22 Jun 18
who? the girl friend? she just dropped by here at home and yes, she and my son are close pals.
the girl whom my son gave a watch to, i don't know if she will come here at home because my son is not YET pursuing her
1 person likes this
@anamika161088 (11866)
• India
23 Jun 18
It's like a great day you had together.. 
1 person likes this
@hereandthere (45628)
• Philippines
20 Jun 18
what type of work is she applying for? wish her success.
i guess it's better to know when power will be out than be caught unprepared.
1 person likes this
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
20 Jun 18
like my son, she also wants to be a classroom instructor. she is a graduate of psychology and the school offered her a position as guidance counselor.
1 person likes this
