Part Deux
@ihasaquestion (8273)
July 16, 2018 1:52am CST
Dear all.
I see so many responders and commentators discussing amongst themselves from my first abuse topic discussion. Most agree that being physical is way out no matter what, and that was the crux of the matter in my previous post. Now, I wouldn't want different cans of worms and tales of dispute between anyone's ex spouses, girlfriends, boyfriends, cats, mouse, dogs or whichever to be out into the open. Please settle that in private for I don't wish to know. Eg; custody for which partner gets which cat or dog, or why he or she doesn't deserve it. Please keep your dirty laundry to yourselves.
Moreover, I don't believe anything unless I hear two sides of the story, which perhaps this topic is for another day. I see abuse as abuse, and the bottom line is, if a man or a woman loves you, they will never lay a finger on you at all in a violent way repeatedly..peace and love to all.
Let's make this place a conducive site to share our joys and worries and ask general questions; to feel enlightened. Alleviate yourself against yesterday's negativities, but remember never to abuse anyone physically just because you know..you can. May God bless us all.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
16 Jul 19
@ihasaquestion I do agree that it's best to hear both sides of a story but as far as people airing their dirty laundry, I don't mind it to be honest and it's totally fine that you'd rather not be apart of it so no judgement from my end. 
But I personally don't mind it as some people literally have no one to talk to or they prefer to speak to a specific person / group of people. And if MyLot is their way to vent and let out what it bothering them as well as getting help then I'm all for it. But please don't take my views as judgement of your views. It's only because I know what it's like to HAVE to keep things to myself to the point I was screaming inside for help. I just recommend and applaud those who are aware they have a voice and I encourage those to speak no matter who it's too or how many are listening / reading. If they are ok with doing it publicly, then it's their choice.
All I can suggest if if you do a post where there is a chance of someone venting their story and you don't wish to know then simply add in your post that you'd rather not hear their story to help prevent yourself not getting involved. Though please keep in mind, when people speak honest about something, it's not really to get you involved or harm you. It's because it's something deep and personal they wish to discuss. I hope this all makes sense and honestly, no judgement on your views. I'm just sharing mine. 
But I personally don't mind it as some people literally have no one to talk to or they prefer to speak to a specific person / group of people. And if MyLot is their way to vent and let out what it bothering them as well as getting help then I'm all for it. But please don't take my views as judgement of your views. It's only because I know what it's like to HAVE to keep things to myself to the point I was screaming inside for help. I just recommend and applaud those who are aware they have a voice and I encourage those to speak no matter who it's too or how many are listening / reading. If they are ok with doing it publicly, then it's their choice.
All I can suggest if if you do a post where there is a chance of someone venting their story and you don't wish to know then simply add in your post that you'd rather not hear their story to help prevent yourself not getting involved. Though please keep in mind, when people speak honest about something, it's not really to get you involved or harm you. It's because it's something deep and personal they wish to discuss. I hope this all makes sense and honestly, no judgement on your views. I'm just sharing mine. 1 person likes this
@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
17 Jul 19
@ihasaquestion You are very welcome. 
And I'm so glad you knew what I was saying. I was worried I may have come off the wrong way. I worry a lot that people will misunderstand me as it's easy to take text out of context. 
And I'm so glad you knew what I was saying. I was worried I may have come off the wrong way. I worry a lot that people will misunderstand me as it's easy to take text out of context. 1 person likes this
@ihasaquestion (8273)
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17 Jul 19
@VivaLaDani13 Nah, it's all good coz I know you mean well.
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@ihasaquestion (8273)
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17 Jul 19
Gosh, this was really one of my oldest discussions. I'd never imagine for anyone to go through them again, lol. So, thank you friend. I think you may be right. Most, if not all, would like to vent out their frustrations and air their rants. As long as no one will be hurt reading, I don't mind it one bit.
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@Jessabuma (31696)
• Baguio, Philippines
16 Jul 18
I agree with you. Abusing is not good thing.
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@Cristi_Ichim (3750)
• Bucharest, Romania
16 Jul 18
I agree with you that abuse is wrong. However, humans are still abusive to this day even towards each other. However when it comes to abusing humans, the general view is that this is wrong, but when it comes to abusing other species the general view is that that is not wrong because, in their opinion, humans need animal products to survive.
@Cristi_Ichim (3750)
• Bucharest, Romania
16 Jul 18
@ihasaquestion no. I mean to say that it is not ok to abuse anyone neither humans nor animals.
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