How can one quit a relationship without hurting the partner

@Berrygal (5834)
July 17, 2018 3:45am CST
There are some relationship that needs to be stopped because one isn't feeling good in the relationship and at the same time,one doesn't want the other partner to feel bad while quitting.How can one go about this? Please share your opinions?
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
17 Jul 18
Ending a relationship is always hurtful. But I think it is wise to do break uo than pretend everything is okay. Partners just need to talk about it.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
17 Jul 18
@Berrygal (5834)
17 Jul 18
yea right
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
17 Jul 18
If one has an intense relationship it is not easy to break it. Someone will be hurt in the process
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@Berrygal (5834)
17 Jul 18
definitely
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• Russian Federation
17 Jul 18
Care about yourself, first of all, you are a girl. If he failed in making you feel good with him, it is his loss. Just stay calm and confident, simply explain that you want t go and why.
@Berrygal (5834)
17 Jul 18
yea right
17 Jul 18
You're both grown ups ,hold a meeting tell the person what you feel and the reasons why you would like to end the relationship and hear what they have to say and end it well.
@Berrygal (5834)
17 Jul 18
yea right thanks
@arunima25 (85265)
• Bangalore, India
5 Aug 18
If one had a real relationship, there is no way you can come out of it without feeling hurt or hurting other one. It is tough.
@Berrygal (5834)
5 Aug 18
you're Right
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@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
17 Jul 18
I think it is at times difficult for one to convince or want another one to not feel hurt. Only the breakup can be put in nice and straight talk, rest we just have to leave it as no matter what you do or say, the other person will feel whatever he or she wants to feel.
@Berrygal (5834)
17 Jul 18
that's right
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
17 Jul 18
Though I never faced any situation so far, it is always better to act like a matured people and discuss the problem and decide. Now a days many Bollywood stars are doing this way!
@Berrygal (5834)
17 Jul 18
okay
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• India
17 Jul 18
It is very intense situation. Better to talk openly without others involvement. It might hurt but for sometime and the friendly relation might survive
@Berrygal (5834)
17 Jul 18
alright thanks
@stapllotik (1933)
• India
17 Jul 18
You cant ignore the person whom you want to quit. Meet with him to communicate but not alone. Take some friend or a person whom you trust. Communicate with evidence. Or else if you don't want to meet , use your phone etc.
@Berrygal (5834)
17 Jul 18
okay
@aureliah (24319)
• Kenya
17 Jul 18
No matter how much you try not to hurt the other person, they will end up getting hurt
@Berrygal (5834)
17 Jul 18
I think so too
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
17 Jul 18
There should be mutual understanding and maturity for both to quit the relationship..when there is understanding that relationship no more brings happiness to them then they don't hurt anymore
@Berrygal (5834)
17 Jul 18
yea
@simplfred (20608)
• Philippines
17 Jul 18
Oh, that's a hard situation. The "it is not you, it's me" thing. I can't think of a situation that one will not be hurt.
@Berrygal (5834)
17 Jul 18
definitely
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@iniaku (2157)
• Indonesia
17 Jul 18
comunication. they need to sit and talk what they want to happen in their relationship
@Berrygal (5834)
17 Jul 18
I think so too
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@CatNip7 (97)
• United States
25 Jul 18
It will always hurt. You can make it hurt less depending on how you go about things, the pain unavoidable. Best thing to do is talk and if one lacks the courage to do so then write it out. There are multiple ways to speak to your partner about anything. Talking is not the only way. Nor is it the one and only best way.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
21 Jul 18
ending a relationship is never easy
@dave121495 (1296)
• Philippines
18 Jul 18
It always hurts, you can either do it or not.