Would you stay or would you go?
August 5, 2018 8:54am CST
There is no divorce in my country... so if the relationship of a married couple is no longer working... the only option is to stay together for the sake of the kids or separate for the sake of their own happiness... Would you stay in a loveless relationship... or leave and seek out someone else to love?
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5 Aug 18
@aseretdd I guess the real question is how confident in your own independence are you? Many people with low self-esteem and who are lacking in independence tend to stay together. Simply because they don't have the skills or are unfamiliar with controlling their own life, or carry for self. It's not only a new chance of life for you but a better life for your children if you have children. Kids pick up on things and an unhealthy relationship only shows them how to have unhealthy relationships. So if you were to say, "I'm staying together for the kids" it's really a false statement. Couple's who part ways can have in some cases a more healthy relationship, which will benefit the children more. I don't know your situation. But just a few things to think about.
6 Aug 18
i 'shooed away' the father of my son when my son was barely 6 months young. my son is now 26 years old. i have a photo of me and his father in my room. my son knows we are separated and it is okay with him. he knows i am his mother and father in one. i believe it is nice we separated because honestly, we do not jibe, if at all.