Dealing with heartbreaks.

@Nkoyof (61)
August 11, 2018 5:20pm CST
Has your heart ever been broken by someone you loved so much and gave your all to? Like how did you feel the first time you were jilted by your boyfriend/girlfriend and how did you deal with the emotional trauma? Mine was in college and he happened to be my first love. He broke up with me because he thought we weren't compatible. I cried my eyes out for weeks and almost gave up on love. But after listening to Bishop T.D.Jakes message on "let it go", I regained my normal self and became the slay queen I was known to be. After some few months, my ex came back apologising but I told him it was too late. So how did you overcome that heartbreak? Let's hear yours.
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@moichan (666)
• Philippines
12 Aug 18
I learned to love myself first. If you know that you never did anything wrong, then don't feel bad about the break up. Once a door closes, a better one opens.
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@moichan (666)
• Philippines
12 Aug 18
@Nkoyof that's good to know
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@Nkoyof (61)
12 Aug 18
So true. Self love is the ultimate. And yes another great door has opened for me and somehow I'm thankful that that break up happened. It was all for my good. Thanks dear
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@Sammilita (228)
• Philippines
12 Aug 18
For me to deal with heart breaks I've made an itinerary distraction places for bleeding hearts. I go to some places that is worth it for my budget, bond with friends and make my life busy everyday. And suddenly I never noticed I was being broke by someone, with the help of friends of course I really made it.
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@Nkoyof (61)
12 Aug 18
You are absolutely right. People employ different ways of recovering from broke ups. My close friends were really there for me and that helped me heal faster and moved on.
@rsa101 (37969)
• Philippines
12 Aug 18
Oh yeah the famous saying let go and let God. I am just glad that you were successful in moving on with it. I think it takes time to really get over it.
@rsa101 (37969)
• Philippines
13 Aug 18
@Nkoyof I can understand that. It is really hard to especially when you've given everything you've got. That is why it is good to always save some of that love for yourself rather than giving everything. When it fails then at least you have something to hold on to.
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@Nkoyof (61)
13 Aug 18
@rsa101 You are absolutely right! I have learnt the art of self love and it is such an amazing thing to do.
@Nkoyof (61)
12 Aug 18
Yeah, it took time to get over it and heal from it as well. Thanks for your concern.
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@mesbakh (2284)
• Indonesia
12 Aug 18
life must go on buddy. any thing you decide to do, just make sure it makes you happy
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@Nkoyof (61)
12 Aug 18
Thanks dear
@Icydoll (36717)
• India
12 Aug 18
Glad you have overcomed the heart break ..
@Nkoyof (61)
12 Aug 18
Thanks dear
@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
12 Aug 18
My world came tumbling down. Took forever to recover.
@Nkoyof (61)
12 Aug 18
It's a really a sad experience. I'm glad that you recovered from it eventually.
@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
12 Aug 18
@Nkoyof There are events that change the course of your life.
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@Nkoyof (61)
12 Aug 18
@yoalldudes So true
12 Aug 18
Lucky for me no heartbreak yet because I havent been so inlove with someone. But I even those who are with someone who they like, attracted too and love.
@Nkoyof (61)
12 Aug 18
Really? You are indeed lucky. All the best.