When manners count
@sweetashoney (3597)
United States
August 18, 2018 3:02pm CST
One of my friends posted a funny video about saying yes ma'am in the south.
It started making me think about how we were raised and the things you better do as far as manners go, at least in our house.
These are some of the manners we were taught:
When an adult is talking to you, you always answered with yes ma'am or no ma'am or if speaking to a men it was yes sir or no sir. To just say yea or no was considered being disrespectful.
All your Aunt's and Uncle's carried the title of aunt or uncle when speaking to them.
We did not call an adult by just their first name, if you used their first name then you said miss or mister before their name.
We also had strict table manners, don't put your elbows on the table, chew with you mouth closed, clean what's on your plate and lastly, you could not leave the table until you were excused.
One of the things that I was taught growing up was holding the door for someone. this one I still do all the time.
Even after all these years, I still do most of these things. If you wonder why we do all these things, well in the South, we like to call it showing respect for others.
What are some of the things you were taught while growing up and do you still do them?
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@arthurchappell (44941)
• Preston, England
19 Aug 18
very similar for me too - a lot of the rules were over strict - holding doors open for others is good though
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@sweetashoney (3597)
• United States
19 Aug 18
You would be amazed at how many people that are right ahead of you and let the door slam shut. A lot of people don't even bother to have the decency to say thank you! Everytime someone holds the door for me, I tell them thank you.
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@sweetashoney (3597)
• United States
22 Aug 18
I think it all comes down to how a person was raised, and some people are raised to think their better then anyone else. They also have never been taught to show a little kindness to others.
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@arthurchappell (44941)
• Preston, England
22 Aug 18
@sweetashoney it happens to me a lot too, and some lads only hold doors open for girls they fancy - not for anyone else
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@1creekgirl (44560)
• United States
19 Aug 18
Yes, I grew up with those manners and we taught our kids the same.
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@sweetashoney (3597)
• United States
19 Aug 18
Oh yea, I made sure I taught my kids most of the manners, the only things that I really weren't strict about was making them eat everything on their plate. I just let then know that once they left the table they were not getting anything else. Oh yes, and I forgot to add in my post also we always said please and thank you, you didn't demand anything, you ask for it. This is one of the few things that I see that is different with children today, they think their entitled to have anything they want.
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@1creekgirl (44560)
• United States
19 Aug 18
@sweetashoney Very true. Manners will get a person far in life.



