Would you marry someone who is not a virgin anymore?
By concepcion
@concepcion (99)
Philippines
71 responses
@tigertang (1749)
• Singapore
29 Sep 07
I think this is right. I mean are marrying a woman for who she was in the past or are you marrying her for the woman that she can be when she is arround you?
@rajivkumar900 (9861)
• India
16 Dec 06
yes i will marry someone who is not a virgin anymore . it does not matter for me . i am not a virgin .
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@knights_of_honour (348)
• India
26 Sep 07
I will have no reservation on this as I am myself not a virgin .. Hey hey hey.. So I dont really have a choice if I dont want to be a hypocrite .
@suren2k6cse (2621)
• India
16 Dec 06
yes, after marriage she should be true to me
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@cassidy22 (2974)
• United States
10 Sep 07
I did. We were 30 years old. That doens't mean we didn't have healthy, loving, monogamous relationships with other people before we met. His past has no bearing on me at all. And my past means nothing to him. We had experiences, we were able to LEARN from them, and be better people for it in the long run.
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@shyamjoshi (222)
• India
27 Apr 07
Yes, Provided i love her i will marry her.Considering love is blind.
Neway i think u agree as much i do people nowadays don't stay virgin till their marriage (With some exceptions).
Though i would hurt me a little provided i am virgin till then too.
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@latikajain (127)
• India
8 Mar 07
if i came to know this after marriage then its ok bt i think i'll certainly not marry a guy who is not virgin i don't know why but i'll refuse
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@mridula123 (734)
• India
8 Mar 07
well..i wouldnt go 4 someone who aint a virgin..but still considering the situation..losing someone's virginity could have been even an accident...so wt matters more is how gud is the person..n how truthful he'll be..
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@arunscorp24 (113)
• India
17 Apr 07
losing virginity dosent matter. But she has to stop that relation ship andd has to love me more then i will marry with no queries
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@prettylady9143 (238)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
if i am a man, i wouldnt care if she's a virgin or not. whats important is her personalities, attitudes and we understand, respect and love each other.
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@sandeep_2991984 (675)
• India
8 Mar 07
this doesn't matter for me. the things matter for me are love, trust and emotional understanding between the two.
• Philippines
8 Mar 07
virginity is not the issue for me. what matters most is our feelings for each other. as they say love conquers all.
@bindishah (2062)
• India
7 Mar 07
I dont think it matters if a person is a virgin or not. i would definitely not marry someone who has slept around a lot but if its with a person they loved in the past, then i see no reason. What matters is how the person feels for you emotionally and not whether he/she has been intimate with someone else in the past.
@smacksman (6053)
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8 Mar 07
In many parts of the world the only virgins you will find are sheep or goats that can run faster than a man!
The whole virgin scene is a very one sided affair. It is always the girl that has to be the virgin simply because you can examine her to see if she has been penetrated before. But penetrated by what? You can't proove it was by a man?
And you can't proove a man is a virgin at all and very often he isn't. If it wasn't a sheep it proberbly was a woman - so another virgin is deflowered to give a man 'experience' or a married woman has 'sinned'.
The world is full of hypocrites with regard to virginity.
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@faith_hope_love (377)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
Yeah, why not? In a my point of view, a man should not demand for a virgin woman, if he himself is not a virgin.
