How to make a good friend?
@debjani1 (7207)
September 21, 2018 2:28am CST
My child is interested in going school. But she is not very familiar with that.Everyday she complains about their friends behaviour with her. I don't know how much it is correct. She has very limited friends. But she shares her Tiffin with some of her friends. There are some students who beat her, taken away her things at home.
Can you suggest me how to make a good friend at school?
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6 responses
@debjani1 (7207)
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21 Sep 18
It is not possible to talk to the class teacher. The other teacher will talk about this. I don't know the parents of those child who beats her.
@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
21 Sep 18
@debjani1 Why is it not possible to talk to the class teacher? I'm very surprised to hear that. I was a teacher for 40 years and if someone wanted to talk to me, I agreed. If I hadn't agreed, the parents would have complained.
You can also inform the headmaster.
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@gjabaigar (2200)
• Philippines
21 Sep 18
Hi, Debjani Basak. You have to tell first or make a complaint to the school principal or administrators and teachers about those students bullying your child. You have also talked directly to the parents of these bullies.
She already has some friends. Just duplicates with other good kids on what she did making some friend with Tiffin. Just take time and patience. Teach and train your child to practice kindness and humility. Make your child always happy. And, the most important is always smile.
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@gjabaigar (2200)
• Philippines
21 Sep 18
@debjani1 Just make always her happy and comfortable. You have to keep on watching her or lookout regularly, always. Keep on learning from her. It will take time just be patient always. Your child is 8 already, time fly so fast. You never know or not notice tomorrow your child is already a teen.
Another thing to be more creative and productive is to motivate her to love readings. Even with just pictures or photos. Is also with arts like sketching, drawing, coloring books, etc. Try to watch with her some videos about DIY for kids. And, other creative stuff videos. Watch good kids/children videos always together with her.
@debjani1 (7207)
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21 Sep 18
But she gets irritated with very small things.though she is very jolly with relatives and other people who come to our house.
@debjani1 (7207)
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23 Sep 18
I tried to motivate her. She get motivated for a small time and again do the things she wants to. She is worried and afraidif her friends don't talk to her.
@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
23 Sep 18
Have you invited the classmates your daughters sees as friends to your house so that their friendship becomes a bit deeper? Maybe this would do her good.
If you get nowhere in her school, could she be transferred to a different school? Is there another one nearby? Of course, it's not a guarantee that the situation will be better there but maybe it's worth a try.
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@debjani1 (7207)
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25 Sep 18
No I have not invited her friends I my flat as there are less spaces to move on and my mother in law is ill.
@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
26 Apr 19
@debjani1 oh my goodness! Talk to the teacher and / or principal! [Or the children's parents! em]surrender[/em] Unless this has all stopped now! I sure hope it has stopped!
@Friendlypink (3805)
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21 Sep 18
to make a good friend be a good friend.
i dont stress my kids of not finding a companion at school i let them know that the right friend will come at the right time.
