the untouchables

United Kingdom
October 15, 2018 1:11am CST
We drove down to my Mumma's house over the weekend, Husband and I. This was partly to sample her lovely company, but more to stuff our faces with the delightfully yummy food at Curry Night. Curry Night is a fundraiser for the Christian charity through whom I sponsor a little Indian boy. I say little, but he must be about 16 now. In order to enjoy the food I have to be social and talk to people who I knew in various guises as a child and young adult. I also have to watch others bow their heads in prayer {I do not simply leave my agnosticism at the church door} and sacrifice an hour of my time listening to some people ramble on about their latest adventure in India with the children. And - if I'm being honest - that bit is quite interesting. It's about a world which I find difficult to comprehend, where families live in one room and have no running water. A world in which boys and men become poisoned by toxic fumes as they search the sewage for things to sell, to provide food for their babies. It's a world where children are kidnapped for begging purposes and girls as young as twelve and thirteen are married off. These are The Untouchables, the lowest of the low in the Hindu caste system. And yet we are shown photos of clean, albeit bare, homes and well-turned out children. Beautiful smiling faces. Death comes young in these slums, yet they make do with what they have and they don't allow the misfortune of their birth to grind them down. The charity ensures that the children go to school, trains them in a skill and in many cases, pay for them to go to university. They have days out and weekends away at the seaside. It's a refuge away from the streets which otherwise may claim them for something far seedier. For some children it becomes their actual home because they are orphaned or run-aways. Not that it is always Good News. Some children disappear or are removed from the centres, perhaps because she's reached puberty or he has to earn money as his dad died. My boy is one of the fortunate ones; he passed his exams this year with flying colours. If he continues to be so studious he may even get into university. I am very proud of him. The moral of this tale is simple. I ate too much yummy curry and am still bloated thirty-four hours later. Please don't be a fatty boom boom like me.
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@josie_ (10033)
• Philippines
15 Oct 18
It's deplorable that in the modern age of human rights advocacy, discrimination of such a large segment of Indian society still exist simply because of a religious belief.
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• United Kingdom
15 Oct 18
It is very horrid. The man who runs the centres encourages those who visit to visit their homes, smile, chat and TOUCH. Because some people still won't shake their hands and whatnot. Nobody can help the family they're born into!
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@josie_ (10033)
• Philippines
15 Oct 18
@Poppylicious _Hindus believe in reincarnation and Karma. They reason that if these untouchables are suffering now it's because of evil or bad things they did in their past life. They have to atone for their sins in order to improve their situation in their next life.
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• United Kingdom
16 Oct 18
@josie_ Yes, I know that {I learnt stuff when doing my degree in Religion and then in my career choice of RE teacher! Lolz,} but in the contemporary world it seems bizarre that some Hindu folk don't see beyond that. Surely the key is to be nice to all, even those who are born in slums to impoverished families.
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@pgntwo (22405)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
15 Oct 18
Ah, yes, fatty boom boom syndrome, definitely a first-world matter. The evening sounds like it was really informative.
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• United Kingdom
15 Oct 18
Yes. The hypocrisy was not lost on me. Or you, apparently!
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@pgntwo (22405)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
15 Oct 18
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• United Kingdom
16 Oct 18
@pgntwo When did you move to Tunisia??!
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• Preston, England
15 Oct 18
such horrendous levels of poverty are unimaginable to us
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• Preston, England
16 Oct 18
@Poppylicious often it is the poorer people who offer the greatest hospitality
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• United Kingdom
15 Oct 18
Absolutely. I would love to go over. I hope I'd feel very humble. Apparently they are hugely generous.
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• Philippines
15 Oct 18
It's not like that it's easy to loose weight. But I am doing my best to make sure that I tend to keep eating healthy food.
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• United Kingdom
15 Oct 18
Me too. And I was doing quite well until faced with all those delicious curries!
@jstory07 (148730)
• Roseburg, Oregon
15 Oct 18
You are doing a good thing by sponsoring that one boy. I hope he goes far.
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@xFiacre (14805)
• Ireland
15 Oct 18
@poppylicious Both depressing and uplifting. A lot of those one room arrangements are for multi generational families which makes me wonder - surely having the m-in-l sleeping in the same room must severely inhibit nookie so where do all the children come from?
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@xFiacre (14805)
• Ireland
15 Oct 18
@Poppylicious my wife’s friend’s husband invited his parents to visit for a month when they lived in the US and he didn’t see the problem with the 4 of them sleeping in the one bedroom!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It was a frosty time. The parents hadn’t a problem with it either. Divorce alert. Strangely they’re still together.
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• United Kingdom
16 Oct 18
@xFiacre *gasp* ... Some families are so funny.
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• United Kingdom
15 Oct 18
It's a question I'm not sure I want an answer to!
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@moffittjc (128835)
• Gainesville, Florida
16 Oct 18
I commend you for sponsoring and supporting such a child. I hope these boys and girls go on to have happy and successful lives. At least they have a fighting chance now.
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@moffittjc (128835)
• Gainesville, Florida
16 Oct 18
@Poppylicious Given that I work amongst many college students myself, I'm afraid I agree with you in the fact that it would teach them nothing.
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• United Kingdom
16 Oct 18
Thank you. I didn't write this post for commendation, but because it makes me sad to realise how ignorant we are to what's going on in the world. If I could pick up some of the kids at the college where I work and plonk them in the middle of an Indian slum, then I would, although a part of me thinks that it would teach them nothing.
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