Helping a Poor Person

By mor
Kiryat Ata, Israel
October 17, 2018 12:12pm CST
I would like to tell you about a person that I have been giving cans and bottles for a few months now. He is almost 70 years old, he is a retired butcher of fish. He spends time at the super market, he helps the workers to put the products on the shelves. I decided to buy him a mobile phone so I can call him and give him cans, bottles so he can get money. I once asked him to give me some of the money because I thought he got a lot of cans. He refused and we got angry about each other. a Month later, I decided to keep giving him can and bottles for nothing. He shows gratitude and smile. Today I offered him to help me in the garden for a few minutes for a box full of cans. He accepted, so we agreed I will call him every week to help me for some minutes, maybe 10 - 15 minutes, so he will get cans. I hope it will work out, we will be friends and spend time even without cans, maybe talk, eat together. It's feels good to get to know a person and make him happy. I must admit that a lot of the times I wanted to get something in return, but now, I decided that if I can donate, for a cheap return, why not. I get a friend. Tomorrow I will maybe invite him to my grandmother's garden for a couple of minutes to take out some weed, and give him 20 cans. Your take, mylotters, do you have anyone you decided to help to, and become friends ? Maybe it gone wrong ? Maybe it came out well ? Please share.
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@RubyHawk (99423)
• Atlanta, Georgia
23 Oct 18
It makes you feel good to help someone in need. I try to help anyone I can. I once bought a small tent for a homeless person. I can't always do that but I can do small things if I see someone that needs help.
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• Kiryat Ata, Israel
23 Oct 18
If there is something you need to do and you need a little help, maybe you can pay him for some help, it will save you time so you can be more relaxed and free. It's very nice from you to buy a tent for the homeless. He can carry it wherever he goes, and sleep if he can.
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@RubyHawk (99423)
• Atlanta, Georgia
25 Oct 18
@stringer321 No, I would never bring a stranger into our apartment. That’s too dangerous and I don’t need help. We live in a small apartment.
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
26 Oct 18
@RubyHawk I understand, it's not so smart to trust strangers. I trust only people I know they can't do harm. Maybe they are weak and not smart, I allow myself to bring them home and help me with some work.
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@septabchips (1142)
• Nigeria
18 Oct 18
I have helped people a lot. But my take here is that the good things you do to human being today maybe forgotten tomorrow but do go anyway.
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• Kiryat Ata, Israel
18 Oct 18
I know, people tend to forget the good things I do and they tend to remember the bad things. I try to do mostly good things. How did you help people ? Can you please share ? Did you get to know some of them and make friends ?
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
18 Oct 18
@septabchips That is very goog and helpful from you. If it happens that you help the same person over and over again, then you can maybe start talking, see what he has to tell, how he became poor, maybe he can work to earn money.
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• Nigeria
18 Oct 18
@stringer321 I do my best to assist financially and physically. For example, if any one i know or otherwise asks me for financial support, If i have I will help even if it means displeasing myself. I believe helping one another portrays love and love is all that matters! I don't necessary need to be friends with all the people i help. Do i make sense at all?
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@velvet53 (22528)
• Palisade, Colorado
22 Oct 18
I think it is a great idea and you are helping someone in need. Bless you. I think it is important to help others if we can. I am sure you will have a lasting friendship with him.
@velvet53 (22528)
• Palisade, Colorado
22 Oct 18
@stringer321 Keep him busy. That might be the best thing for him. You appreciate his help and he appreciates yours. You are an angel.
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
23 Oct 18
@velvet53 I would like to give him work to do, but I don't always have cans, or stuff to give him. I will give him some money if I can. But, for example, if I need to wash the car, he can help me with that, but, the rain can do the work for both of us, and it happened lately. I will have to take his phone number. It is somehow got deleted from my mobile.
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• Kiryat Ata, Israel
22 Oct 18
I hope, because every time he sees me, he asks if I have something for him :-)
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@sol_cee (38222)
• Philippines
18 Oct 18
There's always this Badjao who comes to our house regularly and my husband always gives him a bag of rice. The Badjao would always offer to repay the rice with the dried fish or eggs or stuff other people gave him.
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
18 Oct 18
Did you try to get to know him ? What is his story ?
@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
21 Oct 18
By helping this man, you are ensuring that he also keeps his dignity by earning it. This is a very valuable thing you are doing and also gaining a friend. I help mostly some younger family members but it is fleeting.
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• Kiryat Ata, Israel
21 Oct 18
Maybe you can have new friends instead of fleeting. I don't know how long am I going to stay where I live, I want to move out to a vilage not far away, and I will maybe see this poor person less. When I can, I will jump over and say hi, give him cans.
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
22 Oct 18
@stringer321 I hope you can get moved one day soon then. I am moving this month.
@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
21 Oct 18
Good for you for helping those in need.
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
21 Oct 18
@CarolDM Thank you. Do you help anyone you know with some donation ? Maybe you offer some work they can do for you for money ?
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• Kiryat Ata, Israel
21 Oct 18
@CarolDM What happened then ? How is the homeless now ?
@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
21 Oct 18
@stringer321 I have helped the homeless in the past.