Which do u believe happens first: love at first sight or lust at first sight?

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@sweetrala (1436)
Philippines
November 28, 2006 9:07am CST
Personally I dont believe in love at first sight coz when u are attracted to a person it can be physically,emotionally or mentally and i dont equate that as love,lust perhaps... Watcha think?
21 responses
• United Arab Emirates
18 Dec 06
Love at first sight!?... Nah! I would say it's impossible & improbable. It's too far from reality.. i think no person had ever felt that. It takes time for love to flourish. Lust at first for me would be "possibly" a close description of what someone will feel. I termed it as "possibly" coz i guess it would be more proper to define it as attraction or admiration at first sight. That is...as to what beauty your eyes behold at that instant.
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@sweetrala (1436)
• Philippines
19 Dec 06
good answer
• India
30 Nov 06
In my opinion it can be both, there r sometimes when u see someone so beautiful u r attracted to him/her(in my case her, u can't imagine her without clothes u jst want 2 be wit her, but yes most of the times its lust at firs sight. Very intersting topic i must say
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@sweetrala (1436)
• Philippines
30 Nov 06
love or lust? - love or lust?
i agree,physical attractions is first...tnx for posting
• India
1 Dec 06
Love at first sight at not good.
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@Jetdanet (1025)
• Portugal
1 Dec 06
I think its lust at first sight. In now-a-days the way of having fun at night and the allways party mode, making the lust values being more explicit and wanted.
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@kamikun (260)
• United States
29 Nov 06
I think there is more a lust at first sight kind of thing going on. That is what is happening with my friend and his gf. It was lust not love.
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@sweetrala (1436)
• Philippines
30 Nov 06
love at first sight? - love at first sight?
yup,its a physical things first that happends.Love can grow from that i think
@rannick (21)
• Philippines
8 Dec 06
I don't believe in love at 1st sight.. because love is something deep. it is beyond physical attraction. it's about sharing a part of yourself to someone who is special..
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@Jshean20 (14349)
• Canada
1 Dec 06
I would say lust at first site, I don't see how anyone could fall in love just by taking one look at a person..an attraction sure but not love.
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@jhawithu (1070)
• India
1 Dec 06
ya i m
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@stvasile (7306)
• Romania
29 Nov 06
Lust at first site, obviously...You're totally right
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@edelweiss (1929)
• India
30 Nov 06
infatuation.
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@wiseacre (221)
• India
30 Nov 06
even i think the same way.... but den it is infatuation that happens at first...
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@rms2727 (815)
• India
30 Nov 06
in my case its always lust first... still waiting to find someone for love at first sight
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• India
30 Nov 06
ofcourse its just attraction, lust..love cannot devlope in one sight..its more mature...i really dont believe in love at first sight
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@filannie (281)
• Philippines
21 Dec 06
when there's love lust comes with it.... they are partners in crime!lolz
@sweetrala (1436)
• Philippines
21 Dec 06
good point.thanx for ur comments
@tmnjyk (3486)
• Canada
30 Nov 06
first sight - first sight
Well you are right! I personally think the way you think lol! I don't believe in love at first sight myself. I believe in lust at first sight instead lol! Physical attraction on first meeting is however important but to love the person at first meeting nah! that's not true...it must be purely infatuation as you don't know the person yet:) You can only LOVE someone when you know the person inside and out. You have a great day my friend!
@tmnjyk (3486)
• Canada
1 Dec 06
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@vincent72 (1633)
• Australia
30 Nov 06
Have to be lust nowdays way society is concerned havent seen many love at first sites , live long and prosper :)
@sweetrala (1436)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
good comment.Thanks
@selina0625 (1379)
• Philippines
1 Dec 06
I think neither. What i think happens is attraction, it's not love nor lust.
@sweetrala (1436)
• Philippines
1 Dec 06
good point
@joechan (342)
• Malaysia
30 Nov 06
love at first sight,unless the girl/man very handsome or beautiful,otherwise i could be.
@sweetrala (1436)
• Philippines
30 Nov 06
interesting
• Philippines
1 Dec 06
i think lust at first sight cause are designed to be physically attacted to someone in first sight. that what i think ha!
@sweetrala (1436)
• Philippines
1 Dec 06
totally agree.thanx 4 ur comment
• Philippines
1 Dec 06
neither of the two.i believe "like at first sight" is more appropriate.there is no such thing as love or lust at first sight for me. i usually like a person first. then it will eventually develop and become love(platonic or otherwise). lust?uummm, i'm more into being intellectually aroused..lol.. (",)
@sweetrala (1436)
• Philippines
2 Dec 06
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good answer