Any thoughts about this?
By Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
October 30, 2018 9:13am CST
While I was having my treatment last night. I heard one of the patients talking to another patient about her neighbor. She said that her neighbor's husband is not liking by the parents of the wife. The wife was in Dubai, working in one of the largest company there as a secretary, and that means she earned a lot. While the husband is the one taking care of their 4 kids, the husband does not have work. While the wife's parents are thinking the husband demands a lot from the wife.
She added that since they are already married and that's their arrangements, what's the matter with that. As long as the husband is doing his best taking care of their kids, and it's not easy taking care of kids, even washing their clothes and cook for them. The husband maybe feels small because instead of him working the wife is the one making their life comfortable.
Do you think the parents of the wife is right thinking about the husband?
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@marguicha (216507)
• Chile
30 Oct 18
Nobody has anything to say about an agreement that a husband and a wife have. Each spouse knows what is best for their family.
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@marguicha (216507)
• Chile
30 Oct 18
@JustBhem But adults don´t need to be guided so much. They must make their own choices.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
30 Oct 18
@marguicha
I agree with that. Since they already have their own Family. They are more entitled to do whatever they want as long as they are not abandoning their children.
@brokenbee (11090)
• Philippines
30 Oct 18
The parents are not right. They should not meddle with the couple's arrangement or decision unless the husband doesn't take good care of the kids.
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
30 Oct 18
He is a househusband and that will affect his morale; the in-laws should understand that it is so hard to look after the children. It is easier to work in an office than be at home doing a lot of house chores.
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@RubyHawk (99421)
• Atlanta, Georgia
4 Nov 18
No! I don’t. The husband is caring for the home and children’s. He likely works twice as hard as the wife who is earning the living. If they were both working it would take the salary of one to pay someone to care for the children. So it equals out.
