Apparently, I am a bad person.......
@CountryGirl31 (1259)
United States
November 1, 2018 9:32pm CST
Apparently, I am a bad person.......
And I must be, because I don't give a f**k anymore.
Now usually, when I hear something about myself, it’s only hearsay and I take it with a grain of salt depending on who is the one telling me. There is always someone out there trying to start drama with me. ALWAYS. Which is why I keep my circle very very small.
However, this time, I have proof. Screenshot after screenshot of messages of two people (KK’s bio mom, Renee and the supposed bio dad’s GF) saying that I am a bad person. That I am the one who is keeping KK from her supposed bio dad. That I must be the one who doesn’t want to see him.
Yet, I am the one who would like to see him. I do remember the good funny times that can be had with him but I also know the bad times that can happen when he drinks or is high. KK only knows bad times about him which is why SHE chose not to see him.
Hannah, KK’s sister, sent the screenshots to me after getting ahold of her mom’s phone. Renee had told Hannah that we didn’t want her to go trick or treating with us because KK wanted to go with her friends. Totally not true at all. What was said was that KK did not want to go trick or treating with her supposed bio dad but Renee and Hannah were more than welcome to join us.
These messages made Hannah mad so she snooped and found what Renee and the gf had been saying about me. I’m not that surprised. Not especially since Renee and Hannah have changed their minds again and have decided to stay. Not only that but they are going to be staying with KK’s supposed dad and his gf.
Which means Renee will have to abide by their rules and do what they say. Meaning they probably won’t be allowed to go and do things with me and KK but to be honest, we are fine with that. Until they all want to grow up and respect our wishes, especially KK’s then none of them really need to be around us.
And as it is, KK doesn’t like that they have decided to stay here in NY and that they will be living with her supposed bio dad. She was prepared for them to go but now that she knows they are still in our state, she has to wonder if they will even want to reach out and do something.
We didn’t see them over the weekend because I didn’t reach out to them. Which seems like the norm. They never reach out to see us unless the supposed bio dad tells them to invite us over. Which I then have to decline because KK does not want to see him.
As for what KK knows regarding what is written in this post, I already told her about Renee lying to Hannah as she had a right to know about that since it involved her. I don’t plan on telling her about what was said about me but I would like opinions on this situation.
What would you do in my shoes???
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@RasmaSandra (97912)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
2 Nov 18
If it really bothered me I would confront all concerned head on and see if a solution to the situation could be found.
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@CountryGirl31 (1259)
• United States
2 Nov 18
Should I be bothered by it? I am a master of cutting people off and not caring if I see them or not and I am VERY used to people talking crap about me. I am guilty of the same, talking crap about people but usually what I talk about is stuff I know to be true.
@RasmaSandra (97912)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
2 Nov 18
@CountryGirl31 I would first confront and get it all out in the open and then if a solution could not be found then do the cut-off part. I would not let something like this disturb me because I am sure you know you are a great person so let them think what they want.
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@CountryGirl31 (1259)
• United States
2 Nov 18
@RasmaSandra I try not to let things like this bother me. What bothers me the most is how they lied to Hannah and said we didn't want her to come with us. I explained it all to Hannah and even gave her a screenshot to show that I had invited both of them out to trick or treat with us, even a plan on how to get them here if they needed a ride.
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