A wake up call. / myLot

Philippines

November 3, 2018 4:56am CST

As @DianneN said on myLot personality tops looks about my being mindful about my face whenever I socialize. It was a slap on my face when she said that, really I have a habit whenever I socialize with someone personally to be mindful about my face. It's not only about my face as well but I have social anxiety, i tend to overthink what am I suppose to say and I tend to overthink that they might get hurt about what I'm suppose to say. I'm not hurt about what she said, it helped me grow as a person, I tend to focus in useless things that I forgot what is more important.

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LK2018

@Letranknight2015 (52665)

• Philippines

4 Nov 18

Well, I stop thinking about that and focus merely on my health instead. I prefer to do things that would make me busy. And I've been struggling to save money for the future.

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dave

@dave121495 (1294)

• Philippines

5 Nov 18

Yeah, we need to really focus on health first.

DianneN

@DianneN (254926)

• United States

6 Nov 18

I'm glad I was able to help in some small way. As you grow in confidence, you will be more comfortable in social situations. Focus on the conversation and know that people will like you, just as long as you are clean and neat in a social setting. We've all had some anxiety along the way. When I had dinner with a famous sports athlete and his TV national news girlfriend, I thought I'd die. But the conversation turned out to be easy and flowed well. They asked questions, I listened, and then I asked questions. We all commented back and forth. People are people, so I'd let it go at that.