Forgive him or not?
By Nancy Xuan
@Nannncy (22)
Guangzhou, China
November 12, 2018 2:03am CST
A lot of lovers will face this problem: if your lover didn't care you a lot like before, but he is not fall in love with other, just didn't care a lot like before, and then you feel very tired about this relationship, you want to break up with him, but when he knows you are going to give up of this relationship, he said it's his fault, he will not do that again, and he needs a chance. At this time, will you forgive him?
Sometimes you want to forgive him, and give him a chance again, when you think about this things he did before, you still will feel angry, or depressed, because you love him, and he always care and be with you before, just one moment, he doesn't being him like before, that's why you want to end this relationship.
If you don't give him a change, you feel depressed, because you have a lot of happy memory with him, and you feel so sad.
So what's your opinion about this?
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10 responses
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
12 Nov 18
Hi Nancy!
I think that it depends upon the situation. Since relationships come with commitment, you may want to give him another chance if it is the first time that you had this problem. There are times when we get complacent especially if you've been in that relationship for a long time. However, if you had this problem before and he made the same promise before, then you might want to think long and hard if you should give him another chance or not.
@Nannncy (22)
• Guangzhou, China
13 Nov 18
Yes, I love him, and he loves me also, but what he did was hurt me.
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
13 Nov 18
@Nannncy it is quite hard to forget especially when you are hurt. That is why you need to see and feel that he is sincere when he promises to change.
@Mhalia27 (4)
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13 Nov 18
Hello Nancy I agree with them
Relationship was made between to people who love each other despite of who or what they are
And I think he deserves a second chance
Base on what you said
You need to adjust and talk about the things that you need to talk about.and find solution about it ,.
I'm in a relationship as well and were on a stage that we almost breakup because of the things he do and things I did as well,.what I learned during those times is he needs a space and my support
I accept him as what he is ,.He talk too much but in general he's a good person as well
The two of you needs to compromise
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12 Nov 18
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@debjani1 (7207)
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13 Nov 18
I will give him at least one chance. And if he don't change I will not forgive him in my whole life time.
@lheen93 (41)
• Philippines
12 Nov 18
My opinion is cherish the positive memories you've been through and forgive he negative aspects of your partner. Forgiving and accepting the imperfections of somebody else will grant you peace of mind and build a harmonious relationship. Everyone for me deserves a chance. But if those chances always broken then teach him a lesson to realize what he had missed.
