How do you spend your days of losing love?

China
November 28, 2018 8:47pm CST
I have a friend who has recently lost love. We invited him to drink, sing, ride, and even travel. But he is not interested in anything now.He gave us the feeling that he lost his soul.
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youless
@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
29 Nov 18
I am sorry to hear that. Sometimes only the time can mend the broken heart. Perhaps he can try to do something positively, such as being a volunteer.
slim116
@slim116 (52)
• China
29 Nov 18
Cool,I think it‘s a good idea.I will suggest him.But it's seems that there are few volunteer organizations in China.
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youless
@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
29 Nov 18
@slim116 Perhaps it is easy to find a volunteering job in the library.
slim116
@slim116 (52)
• China
30 Nov 18
@youless Well,The work of Libraries in China is very competitive.And very few Chinese have the sense of being a volunteer.I think it's caused by the different ways of education in different countries.
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Hillary Ralston
@hillhjill (23664)
• United States
29 Nov 18
I'm sorry to hear, my mom's husband left her a few months ago after being together for 25 years and it just took her time to want to do stuff again. So just be there for them as much as possible and give them time to heal.
slim116
@slim116 (52)
• China
29 Nov 18
Sometimes Love is honey, but it can also be a poison.I guess he's nowhere near recovered yet from his experiences
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slim116
@slim116 (52)
• China
29 Nov 18
@hillhjill Thanks,you are very kind.And I agree with you,time can cure everything.I think I should tell him take it easy,just enjoy the life.
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Hillary Ralston
@hillhjill (23664)
• United States
29 Nov 18
@slim116 Very true, just give him time and it will get better.
Simone
@Janet357 (75656)
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29 Nov 18
It’s normal. I dont like going out as well.
slim116
@slim116 (52)
• China
29 Nov 18
Yeh.Actually he is very depressed, getting thinner and thinner.We saw his is getting thin and pallid and discussed it privately, Love might kill a person.
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slim116
@slim116 (52)
• China
29 Nov 18
@Janet357 Yeh,I will,and he should also pick himself up
Simone
@Janet357 (75656)
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29 Nov 18
@slim116 he needs your suppoort at this time.
Nevena Zivkovic
@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
29 Nov 18
I can understand your friend, it's huge pain and nobody can help him, it takes time.
slim116
@slim116 (52)
• China
30 Nov 18
Yeh,actually.He just need time.
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