SHE will be…
By ingrid
@ridingbet (66854)
Philippines
December 2, 2018 4:05am CST
...alone tomorrow. I mean, my sister will be alone at home tomorrow because I will be in school at 7AM for the case colloquium of my previous group of students. My son also works from 7:15AM to 5:15PM in school.
When my sister is alone, she thinks of some weird things. She posts some of her emotions on Facebook, which I read when I am back home in the afternoon. Many times I tell her that I read her posts but I don’t comment or even like them. Why? It is because she mentions she is alone at home, with nothing to do, and sometimes talks to herself as if she is losing her mind.
Many times I tell her not to post she is alone because some people might do something bad in the house, like burglars or scammers. But my sister sometimes does not listen to what I say.
More weird ideas? She imagines herself as dead when I or my son come home. That is how morbid her thoughts are. That is why sometimes we don’t get along well.
No, she is not depressed. She is just an attention-seeker.
I hope she will change for the better next year; maybe that should be her New year’s resolution.
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6 responses
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
5 Dec 18
@DianneN she is already becoming a self-righteous person. she believes she is the 'savior of the family'. oh! how i dislike it when she rants about how incapable she is if she cannot 'solve our own problems'.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
3 Dec 18
my sister apparently thinks she can solve each problem of us siblings. she takes into herself if anybody among us has some difficulties in life.
just several minutes ago, she was anxious about our brother's problem, and i reiterated to her that we are all grown up, mature, and responsible adults so there is no need for her to 'take' our problems away from us and consider herself owning those problems.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Dec 18
@ridingbet It's sad she does that.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
3 Dec 18
yes she is so morrbid. not because she is our oldest sibling, that she considers our personal problems as her own; i would not want her to think that she is our mother who collects all our life's problems as her own
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
4 Dec 18
@just4him yesterday she was again worried for my kid brother. i told her again to leave our personal problems as our own, we have our own ways to solve them.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
3 Dec 18
that is what i always tell her. i should be more understanding, because i think i have a wider sense of positivism than her
@ilocosboy (45155)
• Philippines
2 Dec 18
Yeah that is true, the burglars now also in social media and they used it to spy on their possible victims. She should have someone to talk to when you left her at home.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
3 Dec 18
that is what i worry if she posts on FB that she is all alone at home. even though we have 11 dogs, they can be easily mesmerized by these scammers.
@ilocosboy (45155)
• Philippines
3 Dec 18
Yeah, better vigilant these days because bad people are vigilant also.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
6 Dec 18
@thelme55 she is married but separated. her husband is with another woman now, but their marriage was not annulled.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
3 Dec 18
i agree. she received a letter for our brother and she shot the letter and sent it on messenger to him. now, she thinks she is the savior of all our problems and that was what i explained to her a while back.
''we are all grown-up now, manang. it is up to us to solve our own problems''-that was what i told her.
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@thelme55 (79324)
• Germany
5 Dec 18
@ridingbet so, she is not married! I think she needs someone to love and I think that will change her attitude.
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