How to tell if a man is breaking up with you?
By E.Bercs
December 5, 2018 2:56am CST
How does a relationship turn from perfect to failure? What happens when an extra sweet guy all of a sudden becomes complacent? How does a woman react to that?
I know something is happening to our relationship but whenever I try to initiate a conversation, he just tries to avoid it. Other than the past few months of him becoming so busy (work and study at the same time), he just wants to spend his weekends biking with his guy friends. Previously he would spend his weekends with me. Now they are all gone...
I am not sure if he wants out or he is just plain tired. He just wont talk to me. I tried to initiate the dates and the out of towns... And he just refused them all.
How does a woman with equally busy job and life (also working and studying at the same time) handle this? Let me know your thoughts.
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8 responses
@Davictech (195)
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5 Dec 18
Just try to look for the moment he is happy and talk to him. maybe he will listen
or you talk to one of his best friend to help you in talking to him.
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@Karenmm (881)
• Nairobi, Kenya
5 Dec 18
Well seat him down and tell him how you feel whether he will listen or not then maybe he will respond back.
@Karenmm (881)
• Nairobi, Kenya
5 Dec 18
Show out to him that you are willing to let him go if he wants to...if he really wants to he will walk out but if he still loves you he will not leave.
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5 Dec 18
I tried. But he doesnt want to open. I cant recall if I offended him in any way. ??
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
5 Dec 18
It would be better if both of you can sit and have an open talk. However, I suggest, if he is not willing then no need to push him for anything. Love and care can't get by insisting and it should come out of heart. So have your patience and allow him to take enough time to breath and decide what is good for him and you.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
6 Dec 18
@twocolumnjournal being ignored is not nice at all and I can understand your pain.
@hereandthere (45628)
• Philippines
5 Dec 18
i hope he's not waiting for you to initiate the break up
@anya12adwi (10292)
• India
9 Dec 18
Start making your own friends! Boys do need their pals as well! Girls need too! So start making friends and be less dependent on him!
@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
5 Dec 18
Welcome aboard to Mylot! I just can't put my shoe on a woman situation but always prefer yourself for rainy day though I hope for you both a sunshine.
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5 Dec 18
Thank you for your kind words.. I'm just feeling lost and not sure what to do. :(
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