The ire of the foolish.

@eileenleyva (27555)
Philippines
December 30, 2018 3:01pm CST
The tactless me made the mistake of commenting to an old lady, a church worker who runs a diner, about my sentiments about the church fiesta with two long tables, the elaborately decorated one for the people in gown and Barong Tagalog, and the foldable, stacked tables for the long queue of impoverished ones. I did forget that the old lady whose age is the same as my Mommy's, was one of those serving in the latter, and she was really peeved at the people snubbing the pancit and coming back again and again for the lechon. Of course, I said, the poor had been eating pancit every single day, the lechon was a rare treat. I added that if she doesn't want the deprived to come back for more lechon, then switch tables and let the perfumed people queue for pancit and the poor ones sit at the air-conditioned hall and partake of the sumptuous feast. She said she was angry with me. Just relating this two-month old story, to get this over and done with this year, so I may think about brighter stories tomorrow, the new year.
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@Acefun (1220)
• Malaysia
31 Dec 18
Does the fiesta is buffet style? Is yes, she should not comment on people who refill their food. But you also should not comment her in a straight way. If she did not do anything that can harm others then I will not talk about it as this may be her behaviour of like to monitor other people actions.
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@eileenleyva (27555)
• Philippines
31 Dec 18
Yes, it was tactlessness on my part. I totally forgot she was part of the fiesta committee and tasked to regulate the food for the poor. I would not have commented except that I was already telling the story and couldn't stop. There were other people listening. I couldn't change the story. That would be false. The table for the rich was a buffet, the table for the rich is like ration. But I will seek her pardon. She is a good person and like a mother to many. Thank you for that sound advice.
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@Acefun (1220)
• Malaysia
31 Dec 18
@eileenleyva Glad that you are a forgiveness person.
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@eileenleyva (27555)
• Philippines
31 Dec 18
@Acefun A long process from being proud to being humble. Believe me, there are still people I can't find to forgive in my heart, the wounds they left have not healed. In time, I pray. I am still a work in progress. This one is easy to forgive. She is not mean at all. She just has to know who she really serves.
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