Love me harder: Why do many people beg for love?

@WiseGhots (14603)
January 21, 2019 11:47am CST
I always wonder about it when I see some movie, read some book or listen to some music about someone suffering and begging for love. Love moves with us (and those who have already fallen in love knows this) and "transform" us in some way (and this is not always a good thing). However, I think that everything becomes a big problem when you lose self-love (which is the most important love of all). Am I being a bit harsh on this?
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• Santiago, Chile
25 Jan 19
I think love must be reciprocated, no one should beg for love, if that is the case I think the other party doesn't feel the same thing about you.
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• Santiago, Chile
26 Jan 19
@WiseGhots Aww yeah, you are right and wiser than ever Ghost .D
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@WiseGhots (14603)
25 Jan 19
"... love must be reciprocated..." Most people must learn THAT!
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@WiseGhots (14603)
26 Jan 19
@jvicentevalera Thanks, haha!
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@Berrygal (5834)
22 Jan 19
no man is an island we all need one another to live. so we will always need love from others.
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@crossbones27 (52983)
• Mojave, California
21 Jan 19
Jealousy
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@WiseGhots (14603)
21 Jan 19
Maybe lack of self-confidence?
@Ladanger (14572)
• United States
30 Jan 19
Sadly we want love from people who don't care about us. We have to love ourselves more.
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@WiseGhots (14603)
31 Jan 19
"We have to love ourselves more." Always!
• Indonesia
23 Jan 19
Nope I agree with you. Most people sometimes change themselves to become what the other want because of love. I don't like that. I like the quote "Just be yourself." Simple but hard to do.
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@WiseGhots (14603)
23 Jan 19
"Just be yourself." - That's perfect!
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@WiseGhots (14603)
23 Jan 19
@Jeanne_KaSaHa It's a very simple quote, but at the same time... Extremely powerful!
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• Indonesia
23 Jan 19
@WiseGhots I know it was a common phrase. But I still fall in love with that quote. Because I think not many people can do that. Most people use fake smile or faking good when in public. Not many will show their true face. And I don't like fake people. My principle is "when you have something to say to me. Say it in front of my face. Don't back stabbed me."
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