Burning into ashes.

@WiseGhots (14606)
January 31, 2019 10:42pm CST
Are you the kind of person who likes to stir up memories because of some bad time? That kind of person who gets consumed by past mistakes or mistakes that are made against you? I think overcoming mistakes and forgiving are difficult things to do, but... If we don't do it, evil will be for ourselves (and there is no worse feeling than this). What do you think about this?
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@yoalldudes (35037)
• Philippines
1 Feb 19
I have been like that and it has caused so much suffering and wasted time. But slowly I am learning to move on control my thoughts. I talk to myself and tell myself "If this thought is not making you happy, change it".
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@yoalldudes (35037)
• Philippines
1 Feb 19
@WiseGhots It's a work in process. We tend to forget at times, right?
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@WiseGhots (14606)
2 Feb 19
@yoalldudes I guess so.
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@WiseGhots (14606)
1 Feb 19
Glad that changed it!
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@jstory07 (138554)
• Roseburg, Oregon
1 Feb 19
I will forgive once but after that if the person keeps doing the same bad thing or causing troubles, I will stay away from them.
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@WiseGhots (14606)
1 Feb 19
That's what I do.
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@jstory07 (138554)
• Roseburg, Oregon
1 Feb 19
@WiseGhots It is the smart thing to do.
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@WiseGhots (14606)
1 Feb 19
@jstory07 I totally agree with you.
@JESSY3236 (19724)
• United States
1 Feb 19
I think my mother was consumed by past mistakes.
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@WiseGhots (14606)
1 Feb 19
Have you talked to her about this?
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@WiseGhots (14606)
5 Feb 19
@JESSY3236 Oh, that's a great news.
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
1 Feb 19
The older you get the more you ponder mistakes past.
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@WiseGhots (14606)
1 Feb 19
Well said.
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@Loyd12 (154)
• Zamboanga City, Philippines
6 Feb 19
Forgiveness is the key to a peaceful existence. You need to have a good heart for everyone and then be open to all their weakness so that you will have a perfect life ahead.
@WiseGhots (14606)
6 Feb 19
Well said.
@didinedhia (8470)
• Algeria
2 Feb 19
forgiving is so difficult
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• Algeria
2 Feb 19
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@WiseGhots (14606)
2 Feb 19
Sometimes, it really is.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
1 Feb 19
We all make mistakes, the virtue is to forgive and move on in a positive way.
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@WiseGhots (14606)
1 Feb 19
Great answer, Felix.
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@Tendz09 (126)
1 Feb 19
Forgiveness is given once, not twice. "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me"
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@WiseGhots (14606)
1 Feb 19
I love that quote! Very true!
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