Boy with Girlfriend likes you

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Portugal
February 7, 2019 9:42am CST
Hi everyone What would you do if you had a friend that liked you but has a girlfriend/boyfriend? In my case, I would keep being his friend but sure I wouldn't try anything with him. If he really liked me he would leave his girlfriend and then sure if I liked him also things could change. What about you? Would you still be his friend or be away?
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@Decgirl (291)
8 Feb 19
I would stay away.. Bec I expect loyalty in relationships.. if he have a girl friend already and can't be true to her I'm sure it will be a mess
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• Portugal
8 Feb 19
But in this case he is true to her. If you have a friend and he has a girlfriend and start to likes you is no one's fault. It can happen. I wouldn't want to lose his friendship. But sure I respect your opinion.
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• Portugal
23 Feb 19
@Decgirl yes it is different but if you like a friend just as a friend even if he has a girlfriend and likes you, nothing will happen.
@Decgirl (291)
8 Feb 19
@sweetloveforeve being a friend and being more than a friend is different.. that is what I feel
@shaggin (71664)
• United States
7 Feb 19
I would tell the girlfriend because of a man is trying to get with another woman he doesn't deserve the woman he is with.
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• Portugal
8 Feb 19
In this case I'm talking about it like this, Imagine that you are good friend's with a guy but you suspect that he likes you as more than a friend just by the way he looks at you but he never tries anything with you because he has a girlfriend. Would you stop being his friend? I wouldn't because if we are friends and he is a good friend I won't leave him. Of course nothing will happen more than a friendship because he has a girlfriend.
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@shaggin (71664)
• United States
8 Feb 19
@sweetloveforeve nope that situation would be okay then. The original way you wrote it made it seem very different which was why I replied how I did.
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• Portugal
23 Feb 19
@shaggin yes sure I understand
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@janethwayne (5193)
• Philippines
7 Feb 19
I can still be his friend I think it is okay but sometimes it depends of what you feel as a friend towards them also.If you feel comfortable even if they got partners then maybe it is alright.
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• Portugal
7 Feb 19
Yes because I knew that nothing could ever happen between us or if happen it would be only if he broke up with her. I have a lot of respect because I also wouldn't like to have a boyfriend and other girl flirt with him. Sure it would be too complicated if I also liked him back.
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@ARN4567 (1061)
• Baguio, Philippines
7 Feb 19
He/she is not a friend to me if she/he does that...you can have many friends at the same time, but to have 2 or more gf's/bf's at the same time is not healthy...nah..foolish thing to do esp., to a friend...
• Portugal
8 Feb 19
I'm not saying that he will cheat his girlfriend. You can have a girlfriend for example and suddenly become friends with a girl and start to like her more than friends. How would you feel if she stopped being your friend?
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• Portugal
23 Feb 19
@ARN4567 we are not talking about having two gfs. We are talking about you being friends with someone that might have feelings for you and has a girlfriend but you and that person are just friends and nothing ever happened.
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@ARN4567 (1061)
• Baguio, Philippines
9 Feb 19
@sweetloveforeve I'm not that kind of person...I stick to one...if she stops being a friend that's her choice...
@Shivram59 (31748)
• India
8 Feb 19
@sweetloveforeve Better have that boy as a friend only, nothing more than that.
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• Portugal
23 Feb 19
Yes only a friend
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@Shivram59 (31748)
• India
23 Feb 19
@sweetloveforeve Yes.He can be only a friend.
• Accra, Ghana
7 Feb 19
It is easy to say you will still be friends without trying anything. Most at times things don't turn out the way we wish or even plan. i rather stay away from them both and try to fine myself a man for me, trust me, the closer you are to each other with mutual reaction or acceptance of each other, deary, things will happen. trust me don't dare the human flesh. Before you know you start getting comfortable around him, you chat more often, and start creating any excuse to be with him/her, tell yourself they are not married, a whole of other stuff. I will rather keep my distance if I can. I won't try to be the nice and understanding friend. lol, that one is temporal.
• Portugal
8 Feb 19
I just think that if you have a friend and he starts to see you as more than a friend, but you don't see him that way, then nothing will happen. And it would be sad for me to lose a friend.
• Accra, Ghana
11 Feb 19
@sweetloveforeve you are right and i still think it all depends on how he or she takes it. Some people will accept you and your friendship others will chose to stay away because they can't see you same way u see them. So keeping a distance will not hurt.
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• Portugal
23 Feb 19
@chrisaloys2341 i understand what you mean
@dya80dya (33491)
8 Feb 19
It's better to stay away.
• Portugal
23 Feb 19
I respect your opinion. Thank you for sharing
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