STRESS
@CountryGirl31 (1259)
United States
March 24, 2019 2:19am CST
Stress
Everyone has stress and we all have our own ways to cope with it. For me, I like to take long walks and listen to my music or I like to bake/cook. Those are ways that help me deal with my stress.
What helps those reading this?
This past week has been a roller coaster of emotions. There’s been anger, sadness and lots of stress.
KK and School
KK has had some problems with a friend at school. Her friend Eddie, that I pretty much adopted over the summer, has begun to be mean to her. He has changed since september but these last few months, he has gotten alot worse. There is talk about him stealing (this was proven to be true) and that he has been vaping at school.
Eddie has also been walking by our house and shouting things along with running away from us when he sees us out and about. I had finally had enough after KK came home to tell me that Eddie told another kid (another troubled kid at school) where we lived.
Now yes most people would assume this to be harmless but my mind went to where he was telling this kid where we lived so he could damage our house or try to break in when we are not there. When talking to Eddie he said that the only reason he told Jonathon about our house was because he facetimed him and asked who’s house that was.
Not sure how much I actually believe from Eddie but I did let him know where we stand. I also told him that if Jonathon ever showed up to my house that we would not hesitate to call the cops.
Stress with my mom
For those that have read my past posts, you know that I don’t have the greatest relationship with my mom due to the fact that her husband hates my guts.
Well, the past month or so, things have been getting better where she has reached out more to me. Of course, it’s been mostly to help her out with stuff like trying to help her find an apartment for her and her husband.
Well, the other day my mom calls me in the middle of the night to tell me that Bob’s sister got a restraining order against him, saying he threatened her with a gun even though he does not own one. So they’ve been staying in a hotel room but found out that they can move into their apartment a week earlier than they were planning on.
Since Ester has a restraining order against Bob, he can’t help move anything out of the house so on Monday, I will be going to help my mom. And I just found out that if Ester tries to talk to me about anything concerning Bob, I am to call the police and file a report.
So I’m going to do even better than that. I am going to have my voice recorder on anytime she is near me so I will have proof of whatever she says.
I am also going to call the SPCA on her due to the fact that she is neglecting her animals. I am pretty sure they have mange and upper respiratory infections. I offered to take them all to the vet but she refused to let me take them. Since then two of her 3 cats have died and I found out that not only did she let them lay on the kitchen floor and suffer but she threw their bodies out in the trash.
For those who are about to comment about why I did not call the SPCA sooner, I have but they want proof of the animals condition before they decide to do an investigation. So on Monday, I will be getting the proof I need in the form of video and pictures.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
24 Mar 19
In the real-life setting, I am overwhelmed with stressors. But I tried my best to deal with them confidently. If I cannot solve them for the day, there will be another day to face them. I take them lightly as what @janethwayne mentioned. Some problems cannot be solved overnight. It means we need more time to think them over.
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@CountryGirl31 (1259)
• United States
24 Mar 19
I agree but some issues need to be dealt with as soon as possible. Like the situation with Eddie. I don't want things to get worse and for him to start bullying KK so I needed to handle that one quickly.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
25 Mar 19
@CountryGirl31 I do agree on that. In this case, we still need to deal with full confidence and be reported if it is not attainable.
@janethwayne (5191)
• Philippines
24 Mar 19
Take things so easy.I am stressed myself because I just finished cleaning my storage room.
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@CountryGirl31 (1259)
• United States
24 Mar 19
I try to but lately it just seems like a lot. My days are pretty much the same day after day after day but now I’m actively trying to come up with a plan to move. I talked to my sister about converting her garage into an apartment for me, my daughter and our animals.
I have so much stress regarding my mom and her situation. That won’t improve until she is in her new apartment.
And the school thing, we won’t know if the talk we had with Eddie had any effect until they got back to school on Monday.



