Being protective in friendship...
@Aansh13 (11251)
New Delhi, India
April 2, 2019 12:04pm CST
Hello people!!!
My friend broke with his girlfriend last year, the time has been really tough for him. I have seen him in his lowest phase and it took great effort for me as well as him to come out of it.
While, discussing something today I told him that I kind of dislike her and I will never be able to accept her completely.
I did like her when she was with him as she was the perfect one for him, even now I believe the same but after all that, that happened I am scared of him getting heart broken.
Plus, I personally don't trust her anymore. Not that I hate her, just I can't see my friend getting screwed again.
Can't really make out, am I being selfish...???
Can't really make out, am I being selfish...???4 people like this
5 responses
@skydream (1446)
• Agate, Colorado
4 Apr 19
I don't think you're being selfish i had a best friend who was with someone we all thought they would marry and he changed and used her and they broke up and I didn't like him or trust him anymore and they got back together and it ended up ending a lot of her friendships, her choice.
So while I don't think you're being selfish just be careful and make sure if somehow they go back together it doesn't affect your friendship with them
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@karakay (366)
• Philippines
3 Apr 19
Since it's been last year that your friend and his girlfriend broke up, maybe you and your friend got more closer and so you got more attached to him and maybe only MAYBE you now get jealous when he starts liking someone because you now have feelings for him? Just MAYBE. Correct me if I'm wrong.
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@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
7 Apr 19
@karakay
I love him and the same way I have loved him ever since we became close friends. There isn't any romantic angle involved because I am married to the man I loved. But yes... I don't think I am jealous or something but I seriously started hating her by the way she has hurt him.
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