love issue

@code_11 (902)
Nigeria
September 11, 2006 10:45am CST
Why is it that we love only when they are no issue(s) and once there are issues we tend to stop loving?
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16 responses
• India
17 Dec 06
yes you are right .
@code_11 (902)
• Nigeria
27 Dec 06
thank you however i still will love to know if you do have a clue about it.
@Sweety76 (1594)
• India
23 Sep 06
i agree with u
• India
21 Sep 06
issues arise out of misunderstands ..tht y its so
• United States
20 Sep 06
I personally think if you truly love someone just because you have issues you would still love them no matter what. If you do feel like you have stopped loving them then maybe you need to really think if you truly loved them to begin with.
• India
20 Sep 06
nope, our love does not depend on issues... consider a couple having an issue over a dress.. wife says to take formals but the husband likes casuals these kind of issues are normal they do not effect their relationship at all consider a couple, wife is pregnant..she wants a child but husband dosnt want to have a child so soon in their life.this kind of issues will effect the relationship..but on compromising of anyone tat will get resolved when we consider the earlier example the love for the partner will not come into the issue but the later will come into their life and also may deceide the future of their relationship....such issues are serios ones and must be avoided these issues makes the other feel tat he/she dosnt care for them but in reality its not true..its just a matter of tat moment... i hope u understand
21 Sep 06
That’s not entirely true. It all depends on the issues, I mean after someone has cheated on you, you step away. There is still love, as hard as it is to forget. Although at the end of the day, love is just an emotion. If you’re happy you don’t always feel happy.
@amiksinha (1960)
• India
15 Sep 06
becoz it hurts aur ego... if u love really, then whatever issue comes, i doesnt come between relations
• United States
14 Sep 06
Because there is nothing for the two of you to work against and overcome so people with no/few common goals start working against each other even inadvertantly.
@wsue1023 (1395)
• United States
14 Sep 06
Maybe our expectations of others are just too high? We really need to learn to be more patient, understanding, and forgiving of one another. We're all far from perfect afterall. I don't usually lose love for someone so quickly, but I do tend to become frustrated with people too soon. That's my weakness!
@chalmette69 (3007)
• United States
14 Sep 06
I disagree,if you really love someone you stay no matter what issues occur. If you really love them you want to help them with there problem not leave them.
@SunnyDays (1070)
• Bahamas
14 Sep 06
If you stop loving because of an issue, my guess is that there is no real love involved. Relationships don't always come in handy and issues will arise in various shapes and you both have to deal with them. If you are unable you better let go
@Lillith (774)
• United States
19 Sep 06
I don't feel that if there is real love, it stops just because there may be some issues. Of course,it would depend on just WHAT the issues are. For example, if I were to discover my husband cheating on me, the marriage would be over. I would still love him, but would not be able to ever trust him again. But day to day issues, love does not stop and the issues should be worked on if you truly want this relationship to be saved.
@oscarc (864)
• India
19 Sep 06
people hate to deal with problems in life that come their way..it's the same with issues in love..they expect their lover to come with no excess baggage..if you're really in love..you'd take it as a challenge and try to overcome it..
@kesav010 (1684)
• India
19 Sep 06
thats because the couple r not the 'made 4 each other' ones..we donn always get the best gurl suiting us..when we do issues will not be a problem...
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
11 Sep 06
because we are scared of confrontations, of discussions, of talking things over, of discussing issues...actually, we are afraid of getting hurt.
@alveraks (37)
• Australia
11 Sep 06
Issues are what makes life interesting. If you stop loving because of an issue than you didn't really love in the first place.