Inlove with your ex

@Jerene (112)
Tanzania
April 9, 2019 8:50pm CST
How do you let go of someone you still love and have a child with but does not love you anymore?
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@Ladanger (14582)
• United States
10 Apr 19
Only time can heal. I learned that because no matter what i did to forget my ex only time healed me.
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@Jerene (112)
• Tanzania
10 Apr 19
It seems like forever
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@Ladanger (14582)
• United States
10 Apr 19
@Jerene yeah it took me 8 months and it's hard because you have no choice when the other person no longer wants to work things out.
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@Jerene (112)
• Tanzania
10 Apr 19
@Ladanger...exactly
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@skydream (1446)
• Agate, Colorado
10 Apr 19
Firt, I am sorry you're in the position to have to ask this. Second, I'm not sure there's a sure way to let go and I'm sure it's harder having a child with them. I would say you just have to take it one day at a time, you can love the past and the memories but try to help yourself move on by doing things for you, going out with friends, something you always wanted to do or something you stopped doing. It will get better and I'm sure one day you will be able to move on and let go, good luck with everything
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@Jerene (112)
• Tanzania
11 Apr 19
Thank you..
@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
10 Apr 19
It's hard to let go of someone we love. Do you think you could get him back?
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
11 Apr 19
@Jerene Then there's not much that can be done and you must let him go.
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@Jerene (112)
• Tanzania
10 Apr 19
Not really, he seems to have made up his mind. There’s nothing i’d say to change it
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@Jerene (112)
• Tanzania
10 Apr 19
So sad
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@jstory07 (134508)
• Roseburg, Oregon
10 Apr 19
In time you will be able to let go. It takes time. Good luck.
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@Jerene (112)
• Tanzania
10 Apr 19
It seems like forever but Thank you
@db20747 (43427)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
10 Apr 19
Start to get out and meet other people! Or u can study how to make him love u again!
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@Jerene (112)
• Tanzania
10 Apr 19
I really don’t think he has any love left for me in his heart. I tried so hard. And I am afraid if I meet someone new I will use him to forget my ex
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10 Apr 19
Be there for the kid..
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@Jerene (112)
• Tanzania
10 Apr 19
Thanks
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@psanasangma (5884)
• India
12 Apr 19
It will be hard if you have grudge and it takes sometimes if you deeply involve with ex would like to suggest that don't hate, accept the differences and opinion and be good whenever you meet him or her but always pause whenever you need to revive (in case ). Last but not the least, stop badmouthing about your exes and yes, engage yourself with productive work and enjoy your life
@janethwayne (5193)
• Philippines
10 Apr 19
Well to forget is not easy but it will still happen if you make a effort.Be occupied and then meet new friends and do things that can make your life busier.
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@Jerene (112)
• Tanzania
10 Apr 19
Sure thing...thanks for the advice
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@resukill22 (25052)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
12 Apr 19
Take care the kid, and if you really love him or her let them free
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@resukill22 (25052)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
13 Apr 19
@Jerene just love the kid and care
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@Jerene (112)
• Tanzania
12 Apr 19
Sure, there’s nothing more to do
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@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
10 Apr 19
Love is a very eternal feeling, you can't really make people fall in love... Or you can at least try to make them stay in love with you.... But it's not a surety.... So only thing that's possible is to move on and begin new... It may be really tough but life is a good teacher... Learn as much as you can... With every single day you will become wiser... and slowly you will heal
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@Jerene (112)
• Tanzania
10 Apr 19
Thank you for your wise advice
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@debjani1 (7207)
11 Apr 19
Just be a good friend and do the things needful for the child.
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@Jerene (112)
• Tanzania
11 Apr 19
It’s easy to say
@Jerene (112)
• Tanzania
11 Apr 19
Can you befriend someone you love?
@blaqdu (41)
• Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
10 Apr 19
hahahahah been in love with my ex even if she is married but mostly what makes it harder is the memories of all the romance and other stuff. but with your kid, that's really intense and it depends on the beginning lets say some guys are savage they think if they get you pregnant it's their way to your heart which is stupid...
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@Jerene (112)
• Tanzania
10 Apr 19
Yes, the memories make moving on harder. U have a constant reminder of him since the child looks so much like the father
@Jerene (112)
• Tanzania
10 Apr 19
@blaqdu in the position of a lady
@blaqdu (41)
• Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
10 Apr 19
@Jerene haha haha but are you asking this in the position of a guy or lady?
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