To or not to blame People....???

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I always wonder why do we blame people around us? why is it we blame people for our actions? I think it isn't a very healthy thing to do. Not that I don't do that, but I often try to avoid. Long back, when my best friend had a break up with his long term Girl-friend, he said " I changed so much for her, I wasn't this when I was single", my immediate reply to him was, this is not what she did, it's basically your choice to change. Similarly, I think there is nothing to blame people for, what we sow we reap. We learn, we experience, we grow, every person around us brings something, some kind of lesson, we just need to understand. Nothing great happens with the blame game..... I am still learning to improve, though at times I criticize, but I am trying not to and see a broader and better picture of the scenario. So what do you do...??