There’s no celebration whatsoever.

@JustBhem (70555)

Davao, Philippines

May 12, 2019 7:52am CST

While some of my friends flood my news feeds with photos of their celebration for Mother’s Day, here I am, wondering if some of them are really sincere celebrating the event or posting just for the sake of having to boast. Well, as for me. There is nothing to celebrate because of one reason, my Mother don’t deserve such celebration. Wanna know why? Because she was never a Mother to us, just a name. Never the responsibilities and the love. I envy some of my friends for having a Mother who’s love is unconditional. That even if they have their own Families, their Mother still supporting them with love and care. So don’t forget to say the 3 words to your Wonderful Mom. Happy Mother’s day to all mothers out there. You deserve all the love.

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Valerie J. Routhieaux

@just4him (306239)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

12 May 19

I know what it's like.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

12 May 19

What it’s like?

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Valerie J. Routhieaux

@just4him (306239)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

13 May 19

@JustBhem To have a mother who cared only about herself instead of the children she claimed to love but never showed it. To be treated like you were stupid and not worth the time. Yes, I know what it's like.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

13 May 19

@just4him And it hurts does it? I am still nurturing that kind of feeling.

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@Hannihar (129470)

• Israel

12 May 19

@JustBhem I can understand what you are saying. I have met people here that are so proud of their children and grandchildren and I never had parents that were proud of me. I just had my grandfather that cared for me and he was the only one.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

12 May 19

I only have my Father to boast.

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@Hannihar (129470)

• Israel

14 May 19

@JustBhem I didn't actually. I went therapy and brought the babbage around with me all these years. I married the wrong person so I still have baggage. Sorry, I cannot give you some good news.

@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

13 May 19

@Hannihar How did you cope up?

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@shaggin (71666)

• United States

29 May 19

I don't get along with my mother that well but enough to at least celebrate the day with her. I was close to her when I was very young but not since my teen years really.

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@shaggin (71666)

• United States

29 May 19

@JustBhem until she marries him he won't really be your step brother. I hope if they stick around they will be kind to you.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

29 May 19

Me too, when I was with my grandmother and I was able to get anything from her, I am close to my Mother and I was blinded by that. The truth is, she is only nice to me because I give her money. Only to find out she’s dating a lot of jeepney driver and that we have a step brother.

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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)

• United States

12 May 19

I do wonder sometimes if people are just posting to boast. It gets annoying. My mother has passed away. Every year on her birthday and on Mother's day, I put a picture of me and her as my profile picture.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

12 May 19

Me too, it give me the thought about it. And most of the time I get answer that they are just boasting.

@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)

• United States

13 May 19

@JustBhem That's sad, isn't it?

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

13 May 19

@ScribbledAdNauseum Oh yes.

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Vicki, #1 Creek Girl

@1creekgirl (40523)

• United States

12 May 19

I'm sorry..mothers are supposed to be the next best thing to God's love. But not all of us have a mother like that. I didn't either.

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Vicki, #1 Creek Girl

@1creekgirl (40523)

• United States

12 May 19

@JustBhem I don't understand it either. We just have to use it to make us better than they were.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

12 May 19

Yes, and thanks for understanding. Until now I still wonder why there are Mothers who does not want to be a Mother to their child.

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@DianneN (246849)

• United States

12 May 19

My wonderfully loving mother passed away many years ago, and I still miss her every day of my life. I'm so sorry your mother isn't more loving to you.

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@DianneN (246849)

• United States

14 May 19

@JustBhem Thank you. I wish she was still here.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

12 May 19

And I envy you for having a sweet Mother.

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@rsa101 (37952)

• Philippines

12 May 19

So sorry to hear about how you feel about your mom. I cannot judge you for having that feeling towards your mom since I really do not know the real story about her. I am still hoping that before its too late you can somehow both realize your being daughter and her being a mom to you. Moms are one special person to us since they were the one that sacrificed their life for you. I just hope she realizes that.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

12 May 19

I understand what a Mother is but that definition not suits her for she is a bad mother to us ever since.

@Sreekala (34312)

• India

13 May 19

Thank you so much for the wishes. There was nothing special in our home. I also have seen many messages from many people, posting mothers photos and wishing her through whatsap status.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

13 May 19

I see, it’s global.

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@amadeo (111948)

• United States

12 May 19

so sorry there.I know the story about your mom.should not be this way.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

12 May 19

Even my Brothers are not celebrating with her.

@rakski (112925)

• Philippines

12 May 19

I usually do not post things like this in fb.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

12 May 19

Why?

@Poppylicious (11133)

•

13 May 19

All the Mother's Day love was lost on me ... we celebrate our mums in March!

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

13 May 19

Oh, so not in May?

@Babino (5761)

• Morocco

12 May 19

in my religion, islam, they say Heaven is under mothers feet, sadly, not all mothers deserve that prestige. I'm sorry to hear that i wish you love and happiness.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

12 May 19

Yes, and I still wonder why there are people who are like that.

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