How to deal this....???

@Aansh13 (11433)
New Delhi, India
May 16, 2019 1:57am CST
I need a genuine advice. For past two weeks I have been struggling to speak to my husband, there is not much time we spend together. He is coming late and I being a early sleeper, I sleep by the time he comes. In the morning as well he gets up late and I had to rush for my office. Plus, also the little time that we have in morning, he is occupied with his stuff. I was so pissed yesterday that I find difficulty in sleeping. Only after a long meditation I felt better and slept. I know things are not in our control but this absence of him is taking toll on me..... Any guidance or words of wisdom.....
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Simone
@Janet357 (75638)
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16 May 19
On weekends, try to talk this out with him. I think on weekends,both of you are at home.
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
16 May 19
Yeah! But he is busy with his things, and their are family commitments as well... But will try
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Simone
@Janet357 (75638)
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16 May 19
@Aansh13 you have to find time.
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Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
16 May 19
Communication is the key dear, try to spend some time for him on daily basis. Since you felt odd you have to take initiative to change the routine. Sacrifice some of your sleep and wait for him then have dinner together. I am sure it will make some difference. 'Care each other' is important dear, no need to expect from him, you do your part.
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
16 May 19
Thanks for the guidance
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Twinkle
@Teekaaa (11642)
• India
16 May 19
Sorry that I am not of the age to give guidance or advice.
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
16 May 19
Oh that's okay, may be you can gather some for future reference
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Frederick Espiritu
@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
16 May 19
I and my wife also have this problem sometimes. I am out during weekdays and sometimes even Saturdays. I am at home on Sundays but usually, I am very consumed because of my works. Well, sometimes, I am explaining my situation to her because I can feel that we need a heart to heart talk. She often said that it is okay but I can read between her eyes that our relationship needs more time in order to be a healthy one... So, I am planning to be more active and to have more conversation with her during weekends...
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