Partnership....
@Aansh13 (11433)
New Delhi, India
May 19, 2019 12:26pm CST
Sometimes I have tough time dealing with my husband because of his so called " fearlessly independent" attitude. What I term as kind of selfishness.
I am someone who doesn't believe in 50-50 partnership, I consider giving 100 percent and receiving 100 percent. There are certain things I would do for him by choice, but there are no things that he does by choice, I mostly have to push him for things.
I am not doubting his love for me, that is I am sure about but just love can't make things easier for me. If I will be doing entire household stuff, taking care of his necessities, I think he should also take a step to make it simpler for me. Sometimes I get really tired of doing things and that to with no set of appreciation.
I understand, he is brought up in a certain way that he has less of family values, coming from a kind of disfunctional family, these things aren't rooted in him, but I didn't marry him to teach him family values and how to work together.
This takes a toll on me sometimes.
Anyhow... Wishing my fellow mylotters a good night...
May be tomorrow I will feel better by counting my blessings
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@jvicentevalera (13671)
• Santiago, Chile
19 May 19
I totally understand you. Sometimes we feel that we need to get more from people. I wonder when you met him, did you already know his behavior? I think either you accept how he really is, or talk to him about it. Although as he is a grown up already it must be a little hard for him to change, but nothing's impossible!
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
21 May 19
@Aansh13 Yes, you can understand it better. Yesterday I was not well, stomach pain and vomiting so when he came, I was on bed. I could not even stand up so there was no other way. I could clearly watch his angry and disappointment as dinner was not ready. 
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