Reality vs expectation

it is hard but yeah i handle them well. i must say im mature enough to accept failures or problems along the way

There is a saying - Hope for the best, prepare for the worst. I believe in this dictum.

There is a difference between our exoectations and the results we reap which is very normal for any one! Yes, I am always ready to accept the results of my deeds without any fuss and I prepare myself to do better in next attempt!

@smileyhema I kinda learned at a young age to not get excited for things that may not happen. Though my approach is sadly a negative one. I do believe that thinking positively can help assist you positive results but we also need to think logically and not expect things that are completely out of reach for that will only lead to disappointment. For me, I personally try to think of a positive and possible outcomes while still preparing for the worst.

Ideally one shouldn't have expectations from others but as we are human beings it's bound to happen. We can control it to some extent. Reality is way more different then expectations.

I never expect anything, so everything is real for me.

It's hard but I am usually resigned to my fate and take it from there.

Life is what we make it. Life is so simple, let's not make it complicated.

"Expectations kills" ...so it's better not to expect, be it wealth,fame, name or whatever. If expectation and reality coincide with each other , it results in happiness. But, on the contrary, the things what we have been expecting for, did not happen in the reality, it would be really very difficult to handle the situation. So, what I wanted to say here is, " Happy are those people, who least expect..." :-)

It's really hard of course, but I always face it

It's hard but I have to face it because I'm matured enough to handle pain or everything that I'm facing

You have faced reality without exception. While expectations is uncertain whether it will or not due to circumstances.