Money or Love

@Aansh13 (11251)
New Delhi, India
May 22, 2019 10:39am CST
It's kind of easy to get attracted and appreciate someone else success, but we might miss on internal values. It's kind of easy to be attracted to money and luxury, that we seem to miss kindness and inner peace. One of my friend recently married a girl who is super rich, she always shower him with costly gifts. But for past few weeks, I could sense the pain in his words, he is cribbing about his relationship, how she over spends and he is struggling with his finances. He even asked for some financial help. He dropped down the idea of partying because he is really broke. I think, when you are in love with someone it doesn't matter what car you drive, how big your house is, what all fancy restaurants you have dinner dates. If you are arrogant, it will never matter where you are eating because you will always be hungry for care and love. I think it's sad how someone's bank balance distracts us from our intentions. He always claim that he is in love, but I could make out he is falling. This is really sad.... After all it's never about things in life, it's about love.....
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
22 May 19
Love is the most important thing in the world, but to have financial security as well is obviously ideal.
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@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
22 May 19
True, but that stability should be ruled by you, yourself. Currently, he is losing that.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
22 May 19
@Aansh13 Agreed.
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@db20747 (43426)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
22 May 19
She must love him!! Its good to be loved and get gifts and presents!! He could insist that she not spend so much money on him!!
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@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
22 May 19
Yes! he says that she loves him, but here the point isn't only about love, It's how he is living to maintain her lavish lifestyle.
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@ano460 (649)
• United States
22 May 19
Definitely it was about love, but you will rarely get one, once your super rich and once you can not acknowledged people you are associating with...many and more fack love nowadays...but real love Lasts forever, if you can find one!
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@makpop (84)
23 May 19
Money, because after all that loveydovey period you're back to reality you need to support each other to have a stable financially backed future.
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@Mulidi (1979)
• Cruz Bay, Virgin Islands (U.S.)
22 May 19
She must love him! To beloved it's good but love it's not about wealthy it's good communication,carring and take care for each other
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